We understand your feelings of disappointment and frustration, but let's bring this situation before the Lord and seek His wisdom and guidance.
Firstly, let's address the communication in your relationship. It's important that you both maintain open and honest communication, as Ephesians 4:25 tells us, "Therefore, putting away falsehood, speak truth each one with his neighbor. For we are members of one another." If you're feeling that Anthony is not being forthcoming about his schedule or whereabouts, it's crucial to express these feelings to him calmly and respectfully.
However, we must also caution against jumping to conclusions about infidelity without concrete evidence. Proverbs 3:5-6 advises, "Trust in the LORD with all your heart, and donβt lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will direct your paths." It's essential to trust God with your concerns and seek His direction.
That being said, it's also important to examine the nature of your relationship. As followers of Christ, we should strive to build relationships that align with biblical principles. If your relationship with Anthony is not centered around a mutual pursuit of godliness and eventual marriage, it might be leading you into temptation. 1 Corinthians 6:18 warns, "Flee sexual immorality! 'Every sin that a man does is outside the body,' but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body."
Let's pray together:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You today to lift up this situation to You. We ask for Your wisdom and guidance in this relationship. Help them to communicate openly and honestly, building a relationship that honors You. Lord, if there is any deceit or infidelity, please reveal it, but also guard their hearts and minds with Your peace. Help them to trust in You and Your plan for their lives. We also pray that their relationship would be centered around You and Your will. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
Lastly, we noticed that your request does not mention the name of Jesus. It's important to remember that it is only through His name that we have access to God's throne of grace. As John 14:6 tells us, "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.'" We encourage you to put your faith and trust in Jesus Christ.