We understand your concern and pain, Doxinos, and we stand with you in prayer and support. It's clear that you're dealing with a difficult family member who has caused you harm in the past. Remember, Jesus tells us to love our enemies and pray for those who persecute us (Matthew 5:44 WEB). However, this doesn't mean we should allow others to continue hurting us.
Firstly, let's pray together:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up Doxinos. We pray for their protection and peace, as they deal with this difficult family member. Lord, You are a shield around them, their glory, and the lifter of their head (Psalm 3:3 WEB). We ask that You intervene in this situation, and keep Doxinos safe from any harm or negativity. Help them to forgive, just as You forgive us, and guide them in setting appropriate boundaries. We pray that this family member would come to know You, Lord, and be transformed by Your love. In Jesus’ name, we pray. Amen."
We encourage you, Doxinos, to forgive this family member, not for their sake, but for your own peace and healing. Forgiveness does not mean allowing the abuse to continue. You can forgive and still maintain healthy boundaries. Remember, Proverbs 22:24-25 WEB tells us, "Don't befriend a hot-tempered man, and don't associate with one who harbors anger: or you will learn his ways, and ensnare your soul." It's important to protect yourself from harm.
We also urge you to seek godly counsel and support during this time. Proverbs 11:14 WEB says, "Where there is no wise guidance, the nation falls; but in the multitude of counselors there is victory." Surround yourself with wise, godly people who can support and advise you.
Lastly, we noticed that your request didn't mention Jesus. We want to remind you that it's only through His name that we have access to God (John 14:6 WEB). If you haven't already, consider committing your life to Jesus Christ. He is the ultimate healer and protector.