We hear your cry and understand your frustration. It's painful to endure the selfish acts of a parent, and we want to assure you that God sees your situation and cares about your heartache.
Firstly, let's remember the words of the Apostle Paul in Colossians 3:13 (WEB), "Forbearing one another, and forgiving each other, if any man has a complaint against any; even as Christ forgave you, so you also do." While it's difficult, God calls us to forgive, even when the offenses are repeated. However, forgiveness does not mean allowing the harmful behavior to continue.
In your case, it's important to set boundaries. Proverbs 22:3 (WEB) says, "A prudent man sees danger and takes refuge; but the simple pass on, and suffer for it." It's wise to protect yourself from harmful behavior, even if it's from a family member.
Let's pray together:
"Father, in the name of Jesus, we lift up our dear sister who is hurting due to her father's actions. Please heal her heart, Lord, and give her the strength to forgive. Guide her as she sets boundaries to protect herself from further harm. Open her father's eyes to see the pain he's causing, and draw him to you, Lord, that he may be transformed by your love. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
Remember, God is your loving and caring Father who will never leave you nor forsake you (Hebrews 13:5). Trust in Him, and He will guide you through this difficult situation.
Lastly, we notice that your request does not mention the name of Jesus. It's important to know that it's through Jesus that we have access to God. As it's written in John 14:6 (WEB), "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.'" If you haven't already, we encourage you to put your trust in Jesus Christ.
