I sent my ex a letter, asking for another chance. Please pray for ### and ###!

Miulorira · Jan 24, 2025

We were in a new relationship and everything went well until I pushed him away due to getting triggered. I never told him about my traumatic events in life - so he wouldn’t understand, he just locked the door. I wasn’t given any chance to explain myself, I believe he was in shock

I’m so broken, I really loved this man. So, after these weeks, thinking I’d give him time and space, I wrote him a letter - explaining my traumas, my reactions and asking for forgiveness, reconciliation and for another chance. He received the letter yesterday. Haven’t heard anything yet. We really thought God had brought us together. Will you please stand with me in prayer, in Jesus' name, that he will soften his heart, forgive and understand and be willing to give me and us another chance? And will you pray that, either way, I will receive a reply, and not be ignored? I pray according to His will - and I pray for us to find a new way together again. In Jesus' name.

Articles · Jan 24, 2025

Miulorira, we understand your heartache and your desire for reconciliation. We will stand with you in prayer, but first, let's reflect on your situation in light of biblical principles.

Firstly, we commend you for including Jesus' name in your request, as it is only by His name that we can approach God and be saved.

You mentioned that you were in a new relationship. We hope that this relationship was directed towards marriage, as God's intention for romantic relationships is for them to be covenantal and lifelong. We also hope that it was with a fellow believer, as the Bible teaches us not to be unequally yoked (2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB).

We also need to address the fact that you mentioned traumatic events and that you were triggered. We want to encourage you to seek godly counsel and healing for these experiences. God wants to heal you and restore you, and He can use professional Christian counselors to help you through this process (Psalm 34:18, Psalm 147:3 WEB).

Now, let's pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You today, lifting up ### and her former companion. We ask, Lord, that You would soften his heart and open it to forgiveness and understanding. We pray that he would read and consider the letter she sent, and that Your will would be done in their situation.

If it is Your will, Lord, we pray for reconciliation and restoration of this relationship, that it may bring glory to Your name. We ask that You would give ### peace and patience as she waits for a response, and that You would guard her heart and mind in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:7 WEB).

We also pray for ###'s healing and wholeness, Lord. We ask that You would guide her through her past traumas, and that You would bring restoration and peace to her life.

In all things, Lord, we pray that Your will would be done, and that ### and her former companion would find their hope and trust in You, regardless of the outcome of their situation.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

hostadmin · Jan 24, 2025

We're here with you, Miulorira, as you navigate this uncertain path. We've been where you are, feeling the ache of a relationship that seemed so promising, now hanging by a thread. We understand the courage it took to write that letter, to bare your heart and soul, and we're praying it's received with open ears and an open heart.

We're lifting you up today, asking God to grant your ex the grace to understand, to forgive, and to respond. We're not just asking for a reply, but for a softened heart, a willingness to listen, and a chance at reconciliation. We trust that God's will is best, and we're praying that His will is for your relationship to be restored, bringing glory to His name.

But we're also praying for you, Miulorira. We're asking God to heal your broken heart, to give you strength and patience as you wait, and to keep you close, no matter what happens. We're here, standing with you, praying in Jesus' name.

Saraha · Jan 24, 2025

Praying for you. Heavenly Father hear our prayers. In Jesus Name I Pray Amen

usha rani · Jan 25, 2025

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name.

The Encourager · Jan 25, 2025

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

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Cinu · Jan 25, 2025

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)

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hostadmin · Jan 30, 2025

We continue to lift you both up in prayer, dear brother or sister in Christ, and we are truly honored that you have allowed us to stand in agreement with you. We have been praying fervently for the Lord to soften his heart, to grant forgiveness, understanding, and a new chance for your relationship. We have also been praying for your own healing and peace, trusting that God's will be done in your life.

If you have seen God's hand at work in your situation since you last posted, we would be delighted to hear your praise report. Your testimony could be a tremendous encouragement to others in our community who are also waiting on the Lord. If you have not yet received a response, we want to assure you that we are still here for you, ready to support you in prayer for as long as it takes. We understand that God's timing is not always our own, but we trust that He is always working for our good and His glory.
Remember, our God is a God of hope and restoration.

Please consider posting an update, so we can continue to pray specifically and effectively for you both. No matter what the outcome, we pray that God will draw you even closer to Him, and that you will find comfort and strength in His unfailing love. May He bless you richly as you continue to seek Him through His precious son, Jesus Christ.