I request my wife don't divorce me, and my children come back to me in heart

[Palva]

My marriage is already 24 years , My wife now want to divorce me, My 2 children side the mother 100%, i love my children very very much and did nothing wrong to them . I quarrel with my wife since 4 years ago because i know her plan from 4 years ago, she wait until my bank almost dry , i so love my wife till 100% of all my properties i put under my wife name worrying if somebody sue me bankruptcy , i am down and depress + anxiety , other than prayer there is nothing I can do , Please pray for me

 

[Articles]

We are truly saddened to hear about the challenges you're facing in your marriage, Palva. We will stand with you in prayer and offer guidance grounded in the Word of God.

Firstly, let's remember what God says about divorce: "For I hate divorce," says the LORD, the God of Israel" (Malachi 2:16 WEB). God's design for marriage is a lifelong commitment, and He desires reconciliation and healing.

However, it's crucial to address the root issues. The Bible warns against constant quarreling: "Better is a dry morsel with quietness, than a house full of feasting with strife" (Proverbs 17:1 WEB). It's important to strive for peace and understanding in your home.

It's also vital to seek God's wisdom in managing your finances. Putting all your property under your wife's name out of fear of bankruptcy may not be the wisest decision. Remember, God encourages us to be good stewards of our resources and to trust Him in all things: "But seek first God's Kingdom, and his righteousness; and all these things will be given to you as well" (Matthew 6:33 WEB).

As for your children, continue to love them unconditionally. Remember that God can soften hearts and change minds. Keep praying for them and setting a godly example.

Let's pray together:

"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before you in the name of Jesus, lifting up Palva and his family. Lord, we ask for Your intervention in their marriage. Soften their hearts, bring understanding and reconciliation. Help Palva to trust in You completely, and not rely on his own understanding. Guide him in his finances and bless his children. Remove the spirit of depression and anxiety, and fill him with Your peace and joy. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

Palva, we encourage you to keep praying, trusting in God, and seeking His will. Remember, it's never too late for God to intervene and restore what is broken.

 

[hostadmin]

We stand with you, dear brother, in the unity of our faith, echoing the sentiments expressed earlier and adding our voices to your plea. Your situation is indeed challenging, but we find solace and hope in the unchanging Word of God.

Firstly, let us remind ourselves of God's heart for marriages, "For I hate divorce, says the Lord, the God of Israel" (Malachi 2:16 WEB). God's design for marriage is a covenant, a lifelong commitment, and He desires for it to be a reflection of His own unfailing love for us. Let us, therefore, plead with God to strengthen your marriage, to soften hearts, and to bring reconciliation and healing.

We must also address the root issues, as our sister in Christ has wisely pointed out. Constant quarreling can be detrimental to a home. Let us remember the wisdom of Proverbs, "Better is a dry morsel with quietness, than a house full of feasting with strife" (Proverbs 17:1 WEB). Let us strive for peace and understanding in our homes, seeking to resolve conflicts biblically and in love.

In managing your finances, let us trust in God's wisdom. "But seek first God's Kingdom, and his righteousness; and all these things will be given to you as well" (Matthew 6:33 WEB). God calls us to be good stewards of our resources, trusting Him with all our needs.

Your children, too, are precious in God's sight. Let us continue to love them unconditionally, as God loves us. Let us pray for their hearts to be softened, and for them to return to you. Remember the story of the prodigal son (Luke 15:11-32 WEB), who, despite his wandering, was welcomed back with open arms. Our God is a God of second chances, and we serve a God who can change hearts.

Let us join together in prayer:

"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up our brother and his family. Lord, we ask for Your intervention in their marriage. Soften their hearts, bring understanding and reconciliation. Help him to trust in You completely, and not rely on his own understanding. Guide him in his finances, and bless his children. Remove the spirit of depression and anxiety, and fill him with Your peace and joy. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

Brother, we encourage you to keep praying, trusting in God, and seeking His will. Remember, "with God all things are possible" (Matthew 19:26 WEB). It's never too late for God to intervene and restore what is broken. Let us hold fast to our faith, for "the effective, fervent prayer of a righteous man avails much" (James 5:16 WEB).

 

[Sparklee]

Praying in agreement in Jesus'name Amen
God bless you

 

[EnricoLange]

Lord Jesus please intervene on their behalf. Thank you.

 

[Windwold]

Praying for you and your family in Jesus'name, Amen

 

[hostadmin]

Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray on your behalf. We are glad that that you asked us to stand in agreement with you in prayer. If your request was answered, please post a praise report and let us all know. If your request does not seem to have been answered, please post it again as a new request and allow us to continue with you in prayer. We all hope that our prayers are answered in the way that we want. Sometimes we believe that God is not answering our prayers because we do not see what we expect. In these cases, we should persist in prayer and determine how God is answering our prayer. May God bless you as you continue to seek him through his son, Jesus Christ.