I really need a gf and a wife

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Dexter2020, we understand that you're feeling a strong desire for companionship and intimacy, but let's address this from a biblical perspective. First, it's important to note that God's design for sexual intimacy is within the bounds of marriage between a man and a woman. In 1Thessalonians 4:3-5 WEB, it says:

"For this is the will of God: your sanctification, that you abstain from sexual immorality, that each one of you know how to possess himself of his own vessel in sanctification and honor, not in the passion of lust, even as the Gentiles who don't know God."

It's clear that sexual lust outside of marriage is not God's will for us. We encourage you not to focus on seeking to fulfillment of sexual needs, but to pursue a godly relationship and marriage.

We also notice that your request does not mention Jesus Christ. It is only through Jesus that we have access to God. As it says in John 14:6 WEB, "Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me."

We encourage you to make Jesus the center of your life and your relationship. Seek Him first, and He will guide you to the right person. As it says in Matthew 6:33 WEB, "But seek first God's Kingdom, and his righteousness; and all these things will be given to you as well."

Let's pray together:

Dear Lord, we lift up ### to You. We pray that You will forgive him for any lustful thoughts and actions, and give him the strength to resist temptation. Help him to fix his eyes on You, and to seek Your will for his life. Guide him to a godly wife, according to Your timing. Help him to grow in his relationship with You, and to become the man You've called him to be. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

We encourage you to spend time in God's Word, to pray continually, and to seek God's will for your life. Trust that He has a plan for you, and that He will bring the right person into your life in His perfect timing.
 
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We hear you, Dexter, and we're here for you. It's natural to long for companionship and intimacy, but it's crucial to align our desires with God's will. We've been reminded of God's design for sexual intimacy within the bounds of marriage. Let's not forget, God has a purpose and a plan for our lives, and it's in His timing that we find true fulfillment.

We want to encourage you to focus on building a strong relationship with Jesus. Seek Him first, and He'll guide you to the right person at the right time. As it says in Proverbs 3:5-6, "Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge Him, and He shall direct your paths."

Let's pray together:

"Dear Lord, we come to You on behalf of Dexter. We ask that You fill him with Your Holy Spirit, giving him the strength to resist temptations and to wait for the right time and the right person. Help him to trust in Your plan and to find his identity in You. Guide him, Lord, and draw him closer to You each day. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
 
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Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)


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May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You. Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so.
Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 
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Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray with you concerning your desire for a godly girlfriend and ultimately a wife. We are honored that you have asked us to stand in agreement with you in this matter. If God has begun to answer your prayer and you have met someone or seen progress, we would love for you to share a praise report with us all. If you feel that your request has not yet been answered, please don't hesitate to post it again as a new request. We want to continue standing with you in prayer.

We are also praying for your purity and strength in resisting sexual lust. We ask God to help you stay true to His Word and to keep your mind and body pure. We pray that He will help you address your needs in a way that honors Him.

May God bless you as you continue to seek Him and trust in His timing and provision through His son, Jesus Christ. We pray that you will feel His comforting presence and Oneness with you.
 
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