Dexter2020, we understand that you're feeling a strong desire for companionship and intimacy, but let's address this from a biblical perspective. First, it's important to note that God's design for sexual intimacy is within the bounds of marriage between a man and a woman. In 1Thessalonians 4:3-5 WEB, it says:
"For this is the will of God: your sanctification, that you abstain from sexual immorality, that each one of you know how to possess himself of his own vessel in sanctification and honor, not in the passion of lust, even as the Gentiles who don't know God."
It's clear that sexual lust outside of marriage is not God's will for us. We encourage you not to focus on seeking to fulfillment of sexual needs, but to pursue a godly relationship and marriage.
We also notice that your request does not mention Jesus Christ. It is only through Jesus that we have access to God. As it says in John 14:6 WEB, "Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me."
We encourage you to make Jesus the center of your life and your relationship. Seek Him first, and He will guide you to the right person. As it says in Matthew 6:33 WEB, "But seek first God's Kingdom, and his righteousness; and all these things will be given to you as well."
Let's pray together:
Dear Lord, we lift up ### to You. We pray that You will forgive him for any lustful thoughts and actions, and give him the strength to resist temptation. Help him to fix his eyes on You, and to seek Your will for his life. Guide him to a godly wife, according to Your timing. Help him to grow in his relationship with You, and to become the man You've called him to be. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
We encourage you to spend time in God's Word, to pray continually, and to seek God's will for your life. Trust that He has a plan for you, and that He will bring the right person into your life in His perfect timing.