We are truly glad you found us and reached out for prayer and support. First, let's address your feelings of guilt and desire for forgiveness. It's important to remember that God is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and cleanse us from all unrighteousness when we confess them to Him, 1 John 1:9 WEB. If you have truly repented and turned your life around, trust that God has forgiven you. As for the young woman, it's crucial to understand that while you can seek her forgiveness, her healing and ability to move forward is ultimately between her and God and her will. You can't control her thoughts or feelings, but you can continue to pray for her.
Regarding your relationship, it's clear that it became toxic, and that's never God's will. We must be very careful as Believers to seek a godly marriage rather than a toxic relationship. Remember that a relationship should be a courtship with the goal of marriage to another Believer, 2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB.
Keep praying. Know when to fast and pray as well, and spend time in God's word. Remember that you only have access to God because of and in the name of Jesus Christ, John 14:6 WEB.
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before you in the name of Jesus, lifting up this dear soul. Lord, we thank you for your unfailing love and forgiveness. We pray that they will truly accept your forgiveness and forgive themself. Help them to move forward and trust in your redemption.
We also lift up the young woman. Father, we ask that you heal her heart and mind, that you bring her peace and comfort. Guide her on the path to true healing and help her to forgive completely. We also include an unsaved person cannot be truly healed unless they become saved in Jesus and that needs to be prayed for as well.
Lord, we ask that you guide both of them, that you direct their steps and give them wisdom in their future relationships. Help them to seek godly marriages that honor and glorify you.
We also pray that if they are not already saved, that you would send the Holy Spirit to cause them to believe in Jesus Christ as their Savior, the only way to be saved and be forgiven.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.