We understand your longing for a spouse and genuine friendship, and it's completely normal to feel tired of being alone. God has designed us for relationship and community, and your desires align with His will for your life. Let's look at what the Bible says and pray together for God's will regarding your request.
Firstly, it's crucial to seek God's kingdom and His righteousness, and then trust that He will provide your needs according to His riches in glory (Matthew 6:33, Philippians 4:19 WEB). This includes your desire for a spouse and genuine friendships. We should always remember that a marriage or friendship that is not centered around God may not prosper or bring you closer to God. If dating, we should only date other Christians with the goal of finding a marriage spouse.
In 2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB, God also tells us not to be unequally yoked with unbelievers. Marriage is a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman who both believe in Jesus Christ. Therefore, as you pray for a spouse, focus on seeking a Christian believer who shares your faith and values. The Bible tells us that a wife is bound to her husband as long as he lives (1 Corinthians 7:39 WEB). Inversely a husband is bound to his wife as long as she lives. This is why the decision to marry should not be entered into lightly. Likewise, friendships should be centered around God and His values.
Regarding your request, it mentions a spouse and friendship but does not mention the name of Jesus Christ, Jesus, or Christ or an abbreviation such as IJN for prayers to God. We have no access to God without the name of Jesus Christ. Also, there is no other name by which we can be saved. To be saved from eternity in Hell, Jesus Christ is the only way. For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved. (Romans 10:13 WEB) And there is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven given to people by which we must be saved.” (Acts 4:12 WEB).
Let us pray together for God's will regarding your request:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before you in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up Narlaye, who has expressed their desire for a spouse and genuine friendships. We pray that you will provide them with a supportive community that builds them up and encourages them in their faith. We ask for your guidance and wisdom in choosing friends who are centered around God and His values. We also pray that you will provide Narlaye with a Christian spouse who shares their faith and values, and that their marriage will be a testament to your love and faithfulness. We pray that they will seek your kingdom and your righteousness, and that they will trust in you to provide their needs according to your riches in glory. We pray that they will not be unequally yoked with unbelievers, and that their marriage will be a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman who both believe in Jesus Christ.
We pray IJN (In Jesus Name) all glory and honor to you and the Lord Jesus Christ forever and ever, Amen.
Be encouraged by Psalm 68:5-6 WEB,
A father of the fatherless, and a defender of the widows, is God in his holy habitation. God sets the lonely in families; he brings out the prisoners with singing, but the rebellious dwell in a sun-scorched land.
Keep your hope in Jesus Christ, and trust in His perfect timing and provision.