I now know why my relationship was blocked by Jesus

Dexter2020 · 2025-01-18T21:20:41-0600

I now know why my relationship was blocked by Jesus although it was painful, but I grow in the process. Not to be satisfy with the second best or what I think is best for me. Last time was a fool thinking why Jesus blocked all these relationships as he knows that the girl is not what he has for me and “Not everyone who says to me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ will enter the kingdom of heaven, but only the one who does the will of my Father who is in heaven." Jesus want godly women for me and not a women who is after my money or for the façade of the cathedral or to mix with some rich people and he will only give me the best not the second best. Although it is a long.........................................process but the process ............................................. is worth it. Cause if she love the lord, I am willing to love such a women and take her as my wife. Not some women who claim to be Christian but are after my money and my wealth which will lose it one day but I know the one who seek the lord will not perish and build the eternal treasures in heaven. Who will help me and Jesus help me to see the wicked ways of the earth I sometimes wonder why they are so wicked, for money something can be earned do such despicable things like cheating other in commerce like ordered a printer but send two cards in replacement of the printer. Or girls that will say they are Christian but are after my money and when I cannot afford to spurge on them in restaurant they initiated the breakup and there is no love in the process. Praise Jesus that he revealed the wickedness of human and taught me that there are these types of people in the world. And also I fall into victims of scam, which emptied up by saving for taobao transactions which left me in hurt and confusion lamentation why there are such people like this. But I served Jesus and not this earth and I trust that justice will prevail, what riches I lose now . Jesus have a way to recover it.

Articles · 2025-01-18T21:23:05-0600

Dexter2020, we are grateful for your testimony of growth and understanding in your journey with Jesus. It's crucial to remember that God's ways are always higher than our ways, and His thoughts higher than our thoughts. Let us pray and offer some biblical encouragement and advice for you.

Firstly, it's commendable that you acknowledge Jesus as the one who guides your relationships. As it is written in Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB: "Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight." It's important to note that it is only by Jesus that we can fully connect with God.

We must also address that the Bible clearly outlines sexual immorality and states that we must avoid sexual sin. If you have been involved in sexual relationships outside of marriage, we urge you to repent and turn away from this sin. 1 Corinthians 6:18 WEB states, "Flee sexual immorality! 'Every sin that a man does is outside the body,' but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body." We encourage you to seek a godly wife and pursue relationships that align with biblical principles.

Regarding the women you've encountered, the Bible warns us about those who seek wealth over godliness. 1 Timothy 6:10 WEB says, "For the love of money is a root of all kinds of evil. Some have been led astray from the faith in their greed, and have pierced themselves through with many sorrows." It's important to discern the motivations of those you consider for marriage.

We also want to highlight the importance of acknowledging Jesus in your prayers. As it is written in Acts 4:12 WEB: "There is salvation in none other, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men by which we must be saved!" Always approach God through Jesus and remember that it is through Jesus that we have access to God.

Let us pray:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, thanking You for the growth and understanding You've granted Dexter2020. We pray for continued discernment and patience as he waits on Your perfect timing and will for his life. Help him to flee from sexual immorality and pursue righteousness. Guide him to a godly wife who loves and seeks You above all else. Keep his eyes fixed on You and his heart aligned with Your will. Protect him from the snares of the wicked and help him to be a light in this world.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

Keep studying the Word, keep praying, and keep trusting in Jesus. He will guide you and provide the best for you as you continue to honor Him and follow His ways, and we sign off in Jesus' name.

needhelpsobad48 · 2025-01-18T21:26:00-0600

Praying for this in Jesus Name.

hostadmin · 2025-01-18T21:26:09-0600

Hey Dexter2020,

We're really glad to see your growth and understanding in your journey with Jesus. It's truly amazing how He works in our lives, isn't it? We want to encourage you and pray with you as you navigate through this process.

We love how you've acknowledged Jesus as the one guiding your relationships. It's so important to trust in Him with all our hearts, as Proverbs 3:5-6 tells us. Only through Jesus can we fully connect with God and find our paths made straight.

We also want to encourage you to keep seeking a godly wife, someone who loves and seeks Jesus above all else. Remember, it's not just about finding someone who claims to be a Christian, but finding someone who truly loves the Lord and is after His heart.

Let's pray together:

"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, thanking You for the growth and understanding You've granted Dexter2020. We pray for continued discernment and patience as he waits on Your perfect timing. Help him to flee from sexual immorality and pursue righteousness. Guide him to a godly wife who loves and seeks You above all else. Keep his eyes fixed on You and his heart aligned with Your will. Protect him from the snares of the wicked and help him to be a light in this world. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

Keep studying the Word, keep praying, and keep trusting in Jesus. He will guide you and provide the best for you as you continue to honor Him and follow His ways. We're praying for you, brother.

In Jesus' name,
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