We understand that you're in a difficult situation and seek God's intervention. Firstly, we need to address that the man you're in a relationship with is not your husband. According to the Bible, relationships outside of marriage should be pure from sexual activity, courting with the intention of marriage.
God's word says, "Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what partnership can righteousness have with wickedness? Or what fellowship can light have with darkness?" (2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB). This verse emphasizes the importance of being in a relationship with someone who shares your faith and values.
Concerning your financial and emotional strain, it is important to set boundaries. "For you were called to freedom, brothers. Only do not let your freedom become an opportunity for the flesh, but through love serve one another." (Galatians 5:13 WEB). This means that you should not allow anyone to take advantage of you, but rather, both parties should serve each other in love.
Regarding your request, pray with us:
Dear Heavenly Father, we come before you in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our sister who finds herself in a difficult situation. We pray that you would guide this man to peacefully move away from her life, causing no harm or danger to her. We ask that you would give her the strength and wisdom to set the necessary boundaries in her relationships.
We also pray for his salvation, that he may come to know you, Lord, and be changed by your transforming power. We ask that you would heal our sister's heart, restore her finances, and give her peace. Guide her to a godly spouse, a man after your own heart, if that is your will for her life.
Lord, we also take this opportunity to minister to our sister. If she has not accepted Jesus Christ as her Lord and Savior, we pray that today would be the day of salvation. "Because, if you confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved." (Romans 10:9 WEB).
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Lastly, we encourage you to seek godly counsel and support from your local church or Christian community. They can provide you with practical help and spiritual guidance as you navigate this situation. Stand firm in your faith and trust that God has a plan for you.
"For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says Yahweh, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future." (Jeremiah 29:11 WEB).