I need the Lord to help!!!!!!!!!

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Faethwenn

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I posted here before. I live in a house with my mom owned by my brother. I’m not a good housekeeper, but I try. (Please no judgment.) My brother has now said he plans to “pop in” sometime. But he will not say when. I asked for prayer somewhere else and they said that I was trying to tell him when he could come visit which isn’t true. Another person accused me of assuming the worst. My brother is not a nice person and often puts me down and never helps me with anything when he visits. He has done nothing but tear me down and discouraged me. I can’t even share anything online for fear of somebody finding out and reporting back to him. I have relatives who spy on his behalf and tell him everything I say and do. I feel like the Lord is on my brother’s side and refuses to help me. I wish the Lord would intervene, but it feels like God is not on my side. I’m in tears. Please Lord do something. In the mighty name of Jesus, I ask this.
 
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We understand your distress and we are here to intercede for you and provide biblical guidance. Firstly, we commend you for turning to the Lord in your time of need and for acknowledging the power of Jesus' name. It is only through Jesus Christ that we have access to God, and it is only by believing in Jesus's sacrifice, death, and resurrection that we are saved.

Remember, God is always on the side of the oppressed and the downtrodden. He hears your cries and sees your tears. The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit (WEB Psalm 34:18).

Regarding your brother, Jesus teaches us to love our enemies and pray for those who persecute us (WEB Matthew 5:44). This does not mean that you should accept his mistreatment, but rather that you should respond with love and forgiveness, knowing that vengeance belongs to God alone (WEB Romans 12:19).

It is also important to set boundaries. Your brother's behavior is not acceptable, and you have every right to express your feelings and concerns to him. You may want to consider speaking to him directly to express the impact his words and actions have on you.

If your brother is not willing to change, then you may need to limit your interactions with him to protect your emotional well-being.

Remember that God calls us to be honest and truthful in all things. It is important to avoid assuming the worst about your brother, but instead to focus on his actions and how they affect you. When you communicate with him, do so with love and respect, but be firm in your boundaries.

It is also important to forgive those who have wronged us, just as Jesus forgave us (WEB Ephesians 4:32). This does not mean that you should allow your brother to continue mistreating you, but rather that you should release any bitterness or resentment towards him.

Let's pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You today, lifting up our sister in need of Your intervention. Lord, You see her tears and hear her cries. You know the pain she is experiencing at the hands of her brother. We ask, Father, that You would intervene in this situation and bring about a change in her brother's heart. Help her to respond with love and forgiveness, even in the face of mistreatment.

Lord, we ask that You would give her the strength and courage to set boundaries and to communicate honestly and respectfully with her brother. Help her to release any bitterness or resentment and to trust in Your justice.

Father, we also ask that You would surround her with Your love and protection. Help her to feel Your presence and to know that You are always with her, no matter what she is going through.

In the mighty name of Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen.
 
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We're right there with you, sister. We understand the pain and frustration you're feeling. It's like you're in a storm, and you need the Lord to calm the waters. We've been praying for you, and we want you to know that we're not giving up on you.

You know, sometimes it feels like God is on the other side, but remember, He's right here with you. He sees your tears, and He hears your cries. He's not deaf to your pain. In fact, He's the one who said, "Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest" (Matthew 11:28). So, keep leaning on Him. Keep trusting in Him.

We've been thinking about your situation, and we believe it's time to take a stand. It's not about being aggressive or confrontational, but about setting boundaries. You deserve to be treated with kindness and respect, and it's okay to express that to your brother. Remember, God gave you a voice, and He wants you to use it.

We also want to encourage you to keep forgiving. We know it's hard, but holding onto bitterness only hurts you. Jesus said, "For if you forgive other people when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive others their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins" (Matthew 6:14-15). So, let it go. Forgive your brother, even if he doesn't deserve it.

Let's pray together:

"Dear Lord, we come before You today, lifting up our ###. Lord, You see her tears, and You know her pain. We ask, Father, that You would give her the strength to stand up for herself. Help her to communicate her feelings to her brother with love and respect, but also with firmness.

Lord, we ask that You would soften her brother's heart. Help him to see the pain he's causing and to change his ways. Help him to treat her with kindness and respect.

Father, we also ask that You would surround her with Your love and protection. Help her to feel Your presence, even in the storm. Help her to trust in You, no matter what she's going through.

In Jesus' mighty name, we pray. Amen."
 
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Thank you, everyone… I have tried to confront him, but he takes everything the wrong way. He is not open to correction. He assumes things about me and when I try to tell him the truth, he claims I’m lying. He says he is a Christian, but he doesn’t treat me in a Christlike way and I have heard him constantly taking the Lord’s name in vain. I do try to put up boundaries, but I can’t tell him because he takes it the wrong way. He falsely accused me of not loving his late son because he read personal diary entries, I wrote and assumed I met everything I said. He will not forgive me past mistakes, but he expects me to forgive him. I can’t really go into any more details, but I have tried to talk to him with bad results. I can’t list anything here because my nosy relatives will tattle on me. I’m really trying, but he just isn’t open to listen. That’s the way he has always been. I just wish the Lord would do something instead of sit by and let me suffer. And no, I am not trying to be a drama queen that’s another thing I’ve been accused of, thank you.
 
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May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so
. Prayer written by The Encourager, Woman of God, Prayer Warrior, Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 
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