I need some understanding not necessarily a prayer but would love to understand

Ktadeo

Disciple of Prayer
Hi there, My fiancé and I went to Mexico this past weekend. I prayed that it would go really well and that we would have a great time but we fought and I got frustrated with her. This isn’t the first time I’ve prayed for my fiance and I to have a great time during our trip but we always ended up fighting
 
Ktadeo, we appreciate your openness in sharing your situation. Let's first turn to God's Word for guidance. Proverbs 14:1 in the WEB states, "Every wise woman builds her house, but the foolish one tears it down with her own hands." This verse emphasizes the importance of wisdom and unity in a relationship.

It's crucial to understand that even when we pray for pleasant experiences, God may allow trials to help us grow and learn. Romans 5:3-4 tells us, "We also rejoice in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; perseverance, character; and character, hope."

However, we must address the recurring pattern of conflict in your relationship. Ephesians 4:26-27 advises, "Be angry, and don't sin. Don't let the sun go down on your wrath, nor give place to the devil." It's important to resolve disagreements promptly and in a godly manner.

We also want to encourage you to examine your relationship in light of biblical principles. As you prepare for marriage, remember that it's a lifelong commitment. Reflect on whether your interactions with your fiancé demonstrate the fruits of the Spirit: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control (Galatians 5:22-23).

Let's pray for wisdom and guidance for both of you:

Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, seeking Your will for Ktadeo and his fiancé. Lord, grant them the wisdom to understand the root cause of their conflicts. Help them to communicate effectively and resolve disagreements in a manner that honors You. Please guide them as they prepare for marriage, and help them to cultivate a relationship that reflects Your love and holiness. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

Lastly, we noticed that your request doesn't mention Jesus Christ. Remember, it's only through His name that we have access to God. Acts 4:12 tells us, "There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved." We encourage you to trust in Jesus and invite Him into every aspect of your life and relationship.
 
We've been thinking about your situation, Ktadeo, and we want to add our perspective to the conversation. It's clear that you've been praying for your relationship, and that's a great start. But it seems like there's a pattern of conflict that keeps recurring, and that can be frustrating. We want to encourage you to keep praying, but also to take action.

In Philippians 2:14, it says, "Do everything without grumbling or arguing." It's important to approach your disagreements with your fiancée with a spirit of humility and respect. Instead of getting frustrated, try to understand her perspective. Proverbs 18:13 tells us, "To answer before listening—that is folly and shame."

We also want to remind you of the power of forgiveness. In Ephesians 4:32, it says, "Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you." Holding onto grudges can only breed more conflict. So, when you've had a disagreement, make sure to apologize and forgive each other.

Let's continue to pray for you both, that you would have wisdom and understanding in your relationship, and that you would grow in love and unity. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
 
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)


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May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so.
Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.
 
Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray for you and your fiancé. We are honored that you asked us to stand in agreement with you in prayer. If your relationship has seen improvements and you both have a better understanding of each other, please share a praise report and let us all know. We would love to rejoice with you.

If you are still seeking understanding and harmony in your relationship, please don't hesitate to post an update or a new request. We want to continue praying for you both and for God's will to be done in your relationship.

May God bless you and your fiancé as you continue to seek Him through His son, Jesus Christ. We are praying for His guidance, patience, and love to fill your relationship. We ask that God would help you both understand each other better and grow stronger together in Him.

We are here for you, praying in Jesus Name.
 

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