I need some guidance - Bathing my deceased grandfather before the funeral

[Anonymous]

I need some guidance.

My grandfather has passed. Now before the funeral, we will have to bathe him before his final send-off.

I wanted to ask if I was to breakdown whilst giving him a bath may it cause some sort of bad luck?

I am just becoming mentally prepared and would ask questions first before getting anything wrong.

Please guide and I am grateful for this community. The prayers you have done for me is amazing.

Amen thank you jesus, please protect this website and its members.

 

[Articles]

In this difficult time, we want to express our deepest condolences for the loss of your grandfather. It is commendable that you are seeking guidance to ensure you honor him respectfully. Firstly, it is important to address the concern about "bad luck." As believers, we do not put stock in superstitions such as "bad luck," but rather, we trust in the sovereignty of God and His guidance through the Holy Spirit and shape our lives and actions according to the gospel of Jesus Christ and the power of the Holy Spirit. When you give your grandfather a bath, do it as a request from your family to ensure your grandfather is cleansed in a God honoring way to be presented for his burial and not as a response to a ritual or superstitious activity.

Remember the words of the Psalmist: "Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil, for you are with me. Your rod and your staff, they comfort me" . God is with you in this trying time, and you do not need to fear any superstitions.

It is natural to feel emotional during this process. Grieving is a normal and necessary part of healing. As Jesus wept at the grave of Lazarus, so too can you express your sorrow. "Jesus wept" . Tears are not a sign of bad luck but a sign of love and loss. Be with your family to comfort and be comforted together.

Before you undertake this task, pray for strength and peace. You may find it helpful to pray Psalm 23 or another comforting passage from the Bible. You could simply say. "Lord and our Heavenly Father, I need your strength to perform my duty to prepare my grandfather for his burial. It may have been my grandfather's last wish for this service. Please fill my heart with your love, peace, and strength so that I can look after my grandfather's needs in this final act of service. I pray this in Jesus Christ's name."

If you find the task too emotionally taxing, do not hesitate to ask for help from family members or professionals. It is important to take care of your own emotional well-being during this time, and there is no shame in Godly grief or looking after yourself does not mean priority to self. You must also care for yourself to ensure that you maintain your life to stay part of your family to help them in this time of grief. Remember again to lean on the words of Paul in a different circumstance which may be able to give comfort during this difficult time. "We do not want you to be uninformed, brethren, about those who are asleep, so that you will not grieve as do the rest who have no hope. For if we believe that Jesus died and rose again, even so God will bring with Him those who have fallen asleep in Jesus" . This gives further comfort knowing that we will be united in the resurrection.

Lastly if you feel you need to cry, pray for his soul, or take a break, do so. This is a difficult but meaningful task, and it is important to approach it with love, respect, and care. "Bear one another's burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ" .

Again pray in Jesus Name. It is only through the name of Jesus that believers can call on God and only believing in Jesus Christ can we be saved. After all, it is only through Jesus' payment for our debt of sin from His sacrifice on the cross that we can call on God. Remember that God loves you always and forever, and Jesus Christ has the power to save you. Simply believe in Jesus Christ's sacrifice for your sins, confess your sins, pray to Jesus Christ to be saved, and be baptized in the name of Jesus Christ for the forgiveness of your sins under the new covenant by faith and you shall be saved. After this, Jesus commands us to follow Him.

Know that we are here for you, praying for you and your family in this time of need by the name of and strength in Jesus Christ.

 

[Skewrick]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[hostadmin]

We're here with you, standing in the gap as you navigate this tough time. We understand the emotional weight of bathing your grandfather before his funeral, and it's completely normal to feel overwhelmed. Remember, it's not about any ritual or superstition, but about honoring your grandfather and respecting his body as a temple of the Holy Spirit (1 Corinthians 6:19-20).

When you're ready, take a moment to pray together with your family. You could say something like, "Lord, we come before You today, seeking Your strength and peace as we prepare Grandpa for his final rest. Help us to do this with love, respect, and care. Comfort us in our grief and remind us of Your unfailing love. We trust in Your sovereignty and Your perfect plan. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

If emotions become too heavy, don't hesitate to ask for help. It's okay to lean on others during this time. And remember, tears are a sign of love and loss, not bad luck.

We're thinking of you and your family, and we're here to support you in any way we can. Let's walk through this valley together, trusting in God's unfailing love and care.

 

[Tralynn]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Glogaria]

Praying in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[usha rani]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)


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[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[hostadmin]

We continue to lift you up in prayer during this difficult time. We are honored that you shared your hearts burden with us regarding the bathing of your deceased grandfather before his funeral. We are grateful that you reached out for guidance and support as you prepare for this final act of love and respect.

If you have since received guidance and felt strengthened, please share your experience so that we may praise God together. We are here to offer spiritual guidance and would love to hear how His grace has been evident in your life. If you find that you could still need prayer for wisdom and strength, please do not hesitate to share your request again. It is our privilege to stand alongside you at this moment, interceding on your behalf.

We stand in agreement with you in your gratitude by protecting this community and its members. In Jesus name, may God bless you as you continue to seek Him, and may He guide you with His peace that surpasses all understanding. We continue to lift your family up in prayer, in the name of Jesus Christ.