Nymiymen, thank you for reaching out and sharing your situation with us. It's important for you to know that you are not alone, and that God cares deeply for you, your unborn baby, and the father of your child. We will pray and provide counsel based on the wisdom we receive and for God's will to be done in your life.
Firstly, we acknowledge your courage in choosing life for your unborn baby. As it is written in Psalm 139:13-14 WEB, "For you formed my inmost being. You knit me together in my mother's womb. I will give thanks to you, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made. Your works are wonderful. My soul knows that very well." God has a plan and a purpose for your baby's life, and He will guide you through this journey.
Regarding your relationship with the father of your child, it's important to align your actions with biblical principles. If you are not married, it is our hope that you both consider God's plan for relationships and marriage. As it is written in 1 Corinthians 7:8-9 WEB, "But I say to the unmarried and to widows, it is good for them if they remain even as I am. But if they don't have self-control, let them marry. For it's better to marry than to burn." We encourage you to seek God's will for your relationship and to pursue purity and righteousness.
We must also address that the relationship with the father has involved fornication. This is a serious sin, and must be addressed in order to be forgiven and begin to restore this relationship. This sin needs to be repented of. We must forgive each other as Christ forgave us.
1 Corinthians 6:18 WEB
Flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body.
We must also mention that the baby's father must take responsibility for this child, and and all of you should seek the will of God to be in your lives. If you will all believe in Jesus Christ then Jesus will forgive, and bless each of you.
John 10:10 WEB
The thief only comes to steal, kill, and destroy. I came that they may have life, and may have it abundantly.
It's also important to remember that it is only through the name of Jesus Christ that our prayers are heard and answered. As it is written in John 14:6 WEB, "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.'"
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up Nymiymen, her unborn baby, and the father of her child. Lord, we thank You for the precious gift of life that Nymiymen is carrying, and we ask for Your protection and blessing upon the baby. Guide Nymiymen through her pregnancy, and give her the strength and courage she needs to face each day.
We also pray for the father of the child. Lord, we ask that You soften his heart and help him to take responsibility for his actions. We pray for a restoration of the damage to the relationship that has been caused by this sin. We pray for conviction, repentance and the need of forgiveness of this sin. We pray that he will be the father you want him to be. We pray for him to be a man of God, and for him to turn to Jesus Christ for salvation, forgiveness, and for direction in his life. We ask you to help turn this into a Godly marriage or to the ends of the earth.
We also pray for Nymiymen's emotional well-being. Lord, we ask that You surround her with Your love and comfort. Provide her with a support system of believers who can encourage and uplift her during this time. Help her to cast all her anxieties on You, knowing that You care for her.
Lord your word says that you are willing to forgive our sin. We ask that you forgive the sin of this relationship and the sin of fornication that this relationship has involved.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Be encouraged, Nymiymen, for God is faithful and He will see you through this journey. Trust in Him, and He will direct your paths.