Anonymous
Beloved of All
I'm struggling with the desire for pre-marital sex with my partner and worrying if it is a sin that could send me to hell. It's been days since I've done anything with him, but I worry also about it being among sins that could send me to hell. I don't want to go to hell. I don't want it to be a sin either, because I feel like I've hurt my partner with my fear of hell surrounding our intimacy and going long periods of time without it. I am afraid of him trying to get intimacy from someone else or multiple someone elses. Ideally we would have gotten married awhile ago and been able to have that sexual intimacy without fear of hell (on my side). We've been together two years. He's not a Christian. We live together and have our lives intertwined almost like a married couple without the ceremony and paper. I am a Christian, but I am afraid of my standing with the Lord.