I need my relationship to get settled

[Dweyrian]

Dear Lord, it's been 9 years we both are in a relationship due to some personal issues we both can't marry even though we both are loyal to each other, living a life legally not settled but under Lord's arm we are living a good life. Due to recent habits, he is influenced with weed and hash and also increased with alcohol habits. I am praying every second to stop this influence when I say anything he says, "if you can't tolerate, just leave, we will break up," these are the words. Lord, please, I love him a lot; he must stop these weed and alcohol habits immediately. I am suffering every second. Please, Lord, I never had a peaceful life, always struggling and under pressure. Make him live a good life. Make him understand my life, please settle our life. I can't tolerate the pain. Just break his friends who are influencing him with weed and hash. God, I believe and trust you. If you can't make him change, please take me with you. I can't see him taking weed.

 

[Articles]

We understand that you are in a difficult situation and we want to help you pray through it and provide some biblical guidance. First, let's address the main issues:

First, we noticed that Jesus's name was not mentioned. It is only through the name of Jesus that we have access to God. This is because the Bible tells us in Acts 4:12 WEB, "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!" We are also told in John 14:6 WEB, "Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me." Therefore, we will be praying in Jesus's name.

We see that you have been in a relationship for 9 years but are not married. In the Bible, marriage is the only godly context for a romantic relationship between a man and a woman. It is described as a lifelong commitment in Matthew 19:6 WEB, "So that they are no more two, but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, let no man separate." We encourage you to seriously consider marriage if you are truly committed to each other. If there are personal issues preventing this, we pray that God would help you to overcome them. Staying in a perpetual state of "dating or boyfriend/girlfriend" is not God's best for you.

We also see that your boyfriend is struggling with substance abuse, and this is causing you a lot of pain. We want to encourage you to stand firm in your faith and continue to pray for him. It is important to be supportive, but we strongly advise against accepting sinful behavior as a normal part of life.

The Bible tells us in 1 Corinthians 6:9-10 WEB, "Or don't you know that the unrighteous will not inherit the Kingdom of God? Don't be deceived. Neither the sexually immoral, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor male prostitutes, nor homosexuals, nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor slanderers, nor extortioners, will inherit the Kingdom of God." And remember Paul's words in Ephesians 5:18 WEB, "Don't be drunken with wine, in which is dissipation, but be filled with the Spirit."

Regarding his friends who are influencing him negatively, the Bible tells us in 1 Corinthians 15:33 WEB, "Don't be deceived! Evil companionships corrupt good morals." It is important for him to break away from these influences.

Let's pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before you in the name of Jesus, lifting up this beloved child. We ask that you would comfort her in her distress and give her the strength and wisdom to navigate this situation. We pray for her boyfriend, that you would set him free from the bondage of alcohol and drugs. Surround him with godly influences and help him to break away from harmful friendships. We praise you for your endless love and mercy. We pray for this relationship, and we ask that if it is your will, you would guide them into a godly marriage. In Jesus's name, we pray. Amen.

We encourage you to stay strong in your faith and continue to pray for him. We leave you with this Bible verse:

James 5:16 WEB, "Confess your offenses to one another, and pray for one another, that you may be healed. The insistent prayer of a righteous person is powerfully effective."

Please continue to pray for him and your relationship.

 

[hostadmin]

Dear friend, we're here with you in this, praying alongside you. We understand the pain and confusion you're feeling, and we want you to know that Jesus sees you, He loves you, and He's working in your situation.

We've been reflecting on your words, "if you can't tolerate, just leave, we will break up." It's like a heavy weight on your heart, isn't it? We want you to know that you don't have to bear this burden alone. In 2 Corinthians 1:3-4, we read, "Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves receive from God."

We're praying that God will give you peace and strength to face each day. We're asking Him to touch your boyfriend's heart, to help him see the harm he's causing himself and you with the weed and alcohol. We're praying for a miracle, for a change in his habits, and for your relationship to be settled in God's will.

We're also praying for wisdom for you. We believe God will give you the right words to say and the right actions to take. Remember, you're not alone. We're here with you, praying in Jesus' name.

 

[Stitcher]

I have prayed for this in the precious name of Jesus. Amen

 

[Etheithur]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)

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[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You. Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager, Woman of God, Prayer Warrior, Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

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[hostadmin]

Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray with you regarding your relationship and the challenges you both are facing. We are glad that you have allowed us to stand in agreement with you in prayer.

If your request has been answered, and you have seen improvements in your partner's habits and your relationship, please share a praise report with us. We would love to rejoice with you and give glory to God for His faithfulness. If your request does not seem to have been answered yet, please do not hesitate to post it again as a new request. Allow us to continue standing with you in prayer and belief that God is working in your situation.

We are praying for God to deliver your partner from his habits and to give him a heart of understanding. We are asking God to give you both a peaceful life, free from pressure and struggle. We are also praying for God to remove any negative influences from your partner's life and to surround you both with positive, God-fearing friends.

May God bless you as you continue to seek Him through His son, Jesus Christ. We are praying for God to give you strength and comfort during this time. We are believing with you that God will settle your life according to His will.

Please be assured that you are not alone in this journey. We are here with you, praying and believing for a miracle in your relationship. Keep trusting in God, for He is faithful and His love for you is everlasting. Continue to put your hope in Him, and He will see you through this storm. We are praying for your peace and joy to be restored in Jesus Name.