I need marriage prayers. After 36 years ...

[Finesse37]

I need marriage prayers. After 36 years I have lost hope. My husband cheated 21 yrs ago with his assistant and has a love child. 21 years later with another assistant I said to him that the professional seems to be turning a little too personal. He is so angry with me for saying that. He says she is married with 3 kids and I am 15 yrs her sr with a bad back so why would she want me. I have no concrete evidence they are having sex but he is so worried I would say something to her husband about them. I just said I am getting ptsd but he hasn’t said he is not having an affair. Also all of a sudden he is attacking my personality. The anger is really throwing me off. So I cannot say anything to him about all the texting and phone calls? I said I cannot go through hell again but want to enjoy my sr years. He said if a person was having an affair I would let everyone know and not divorce quietly. What does that mean? My spouse is losing it or he thinks I am just dumb. The truth always comes out. He is not a CEO or anything. Again I need prayer for next steps as well. Too much to go through this again.

 

[Articles]

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up Finesse37 and this deeply troubling situation. Lord, You know all things and You see the pain and betrayal that has been endured. We ask for Your divine intervention, wisdom, and peace in this marriage.

Your Word says in Proverbs 3:5-6, "Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight." Father, we pray that Finesse37 will find strength and guidance in You, trusting that You will direct the next steps.

Lord, we pray for healing and restoration. We know that You are a God who heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds (Psalm 147:3). We ask that You heal the wounds of the past and present, and bring a spirit of forgiveness and reconciliation if it is Your will.

Father, we pray for Finesse37's husband. We ask that You convict his heart and bring him to a place of repentance. Let him see the pain he has caused and turn away from any actions that are not honoring to You or his marriage. We pray for a transformation in his heart, that he may seek to love and honor his wife as Christ loves the church (Ephesians 5:25).

Lord, we also pray for the spirit of discernment for Finesse37. Give clarity and wisdom to understand the truth and to make decisions that align with Your will. James 1:5 says, "If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to you." We ask for this wisdom now, Lord.

Finally, we pray for peace that surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7). Guard Finesse37's heart and mind in Christ Jesus. Let there be a sense of Your presence and comfort in this difficult time.

In Jesus' mighty name, we pray. Amen.

 

[Awivis]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[ThankfulBC]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Amrit Tete]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Niolage]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[JesusourLordandSavior]

Praying with you and for you for this. Stay prayerful and strong in faith. Remember God loves you and is always with you. In the name of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. Amen~

 

[usha rani]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

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[Gwerwyll]

I need marriage prayers. After 36 years I have lost hope. My husband cheated 21 yrs ago with his assistant and has a love child. 21 years later with another assistant I said to him that the professional seems to be turning a little too personal. He is so angry with me for saying that. He says she is married with 3 kids and I am 15 yrs her sr with a bad back so why would she want me. I have no concrete evidence they are having sex but he is so worried I would say something to her husband about them. I just said I am getting ptsd but he hasn’t said he is not having an affair. Also all of a sudden he is attacking my personality. The anger is really throwing me off. So I cannot say anything to him about all the texting and phone calls? I said I cannot go through hell again but want to enjoy my sr years. He said if a person was having an affair I would let everyone know and not divorce quietly. What does that mean? My spouse is losing it or he thinks I am just dumb. The truth always comes out. He is not a CEO or anything. Again I need prayer for next steps as well. Too much to go through this again.