I need help to the truth

Anonymous

Beloved of All
I am in a situation ship for the last 8 years. I am nearing 50 soon. I need to see the truth about my boyfriend. I am tired of crying and the uncertainty.
 
We understand that you're seeking the truth about your situation, and we're here to help you pray and seek God's will for your life. Firstly, let's address the context of your relationship. You've been in a situation ship for eight years, which we understand to mean a romantic relationship without the commitment of marriage. In the eyes of God, such relationships should be purposed for marriage, as God's design for intimacy is within the bounds of a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman. If this were not the intent of your relationship, serious thought and self-exmation is required.

The Bible teaches, Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don't lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight (Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB). This means that God should be at the center of your life and decisions, including your relationships especially if there has been long term commitment.

You mentioned that you're nearing 50 and tired of crying and uncertainty. It's clear that you're at a crossroads, and it's important to seek God's wisdom and not rely on your own understanding. God promises to direct your paths when you trust Him completely and genuinely seek to do the right thing.

Let's pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father,

*We come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up this dear sister who finds herself in a difficult situation. She has been in a relationship for eight years, and she's seeking Your truth and guidance.* *First we ask for forgiveness of all sin that has been involved here, knowingly or unknowingly, intentionally or unintentionally.* *Father both have been living in sin and this is in direct opposition to your will and principles.* *Father also we ask for Anonymous' repentant heart over any sin in this matter.* *Thank you for granting this as you have promised in 1 John 1:9 "If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness." WEB.* *Please know your salvation lies in making Jesus Christ your Lord and Saviour by the confession of your mouth and belief in your heart in Jesus' sacrificial death, burial, and resurrection as payment for your sins. Romans 10:9-10 "that if you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. For with the heart, one believes resulting in righteousness; and with the mouth confession is made resulting in salvation." WEB.* *Please know you also must turn from and repent of all your sin. With the cross there is always the command to repent.* *If you do not make Jesus Christ your Lord and Saviour then you are not guaranteed an eternity in heaven and your eternal destination will most likely be hell. If this relationship is not pleasing to you, God, then obedience to Your will should be pursued.*

*Father, give her the strength and wisdom to make the decisions that honor You. If this relationship is not Your will, we pray that You grant her the courage to walk away and trust in Your plans for her life. If this man is to be her husband, then guide them both towards a God-honoring marriage and commitment.*

*In the meantime, Father, please bring comfort and peace to her heart. Dry her tears and replace uncertainty with a steadfast trust in You. Help her to focus on Your goodness and Your plan for her life, dear Lord.*

*Finally, we confess that there have been so many issues in this relationship that do not align with biblical principles for godly relationships.* *Father there has been 8 years of the sin of fornication, rebellion to your will, and possibly a long list of other things that may not align with biblical principles. Help Anonymous lean on You for all understanding. Please continue to be with her always as You have promised.*

*We pray all these things in Jesus' precious name.* *Amen.*

May God grant you peace, wisdom, and the courage to follow His will. Remember, God loves you deeply and has a plan for your life. He promises, For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says Yahweh, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future (Jeremiah 29:11 WEB). Trust in Him, and He will direct your paths.

*Finally let us leave Anonymous with this thought, as for God, his way is perfect. Psalms 18:30. WEB. We understand that God's perfect way includes Jesus, His only son, and Jesus only.* *Therefore let all of us as one group take this opportunity to look at ourselves and our relationships and families to make sure they are pleasing in your sight, God.* *Let us also take this opportunity to share the gospel of Jesus Christ with Anonymous and all the readers* *as there is salvation in no other; for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved.Acts 4:12 WEB.*
 
We're here with you, sister, as you navigate this journey. We understand the complexity of your situation, and we want you to know that you're not alone. You've invested eight years in this relationship, and as you approach 50, it's natural to feel tired and uncertain. But remember, God sees you, and He has a purpose for your life.

Let's turn to Psalm 34:18, "The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit." God is near, and He wants to heal your heart. Trust in Him, and let His love comfort you.

We also want to encourage you to seek God's will above all else. In Matthew 6:33, Jesus tells us, "But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well." Pursue God's will, and He will guide your steps.

Let's pray together:

"Dear Heavenly Father, we come to You today, lifting up our sister who is seeking Your truth and guidance. Lord, we ask for forgiveness for any sin, known or unknown, that has been a part of this relationship. We thank You for Your unfailing love and mercy, as promised in 1 John 1:9. Father, we pray that she would make Jesus Christ her Lord and Savior, turning from all sin. If this relationship is not Your will, grant her the courage to walk away and trust in Your plans for her life. Give her strength and wisdom to make decisions that honor You. Comfort her heart, dry her tears, and fill her with peace and hope. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

May God grant you peace, wisdom, and the courage to follow His will. Trust in Him, and He will direct your paths.
 
May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so.
Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.
 
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

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Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

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