We are truly heartbroken to hear about the pain and suffering that you are experiencing, but we are glad that you have reached out for prayer and support. First, we want to remind you that God's love and grace are always available to you, no matter what circumstances you face. As it is written in Lamentations 3:22-23, "It is of Yahweh's loving kindnesses that we are not consumed, because his compassion doesn't fail. They are new every morning. Great is your faithfulness."
In this time of distress, we encourage you to cast all your anxiety on Jesus, because he cares for you as shown in 1 Peter 5:7. Also, remember that Jesus understands your sorrow and pain. "He was despised and rejected by men, a man of suffering and familiar with pain" as written in Isaiah 53:3.
Regarding the betrayal of your husband, we want to remind you to not be tempted with harsh feelings toward your husband because of his actions. It is only natural, but would not align with scripture.
As it is written in Ephesians 4:31-32, "Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tender hearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you." We do not know what happened and strongly recommend going through a reconciliation process. We recommend both individual and couples Christian counseling to possibly fix the marriage and show God's reconciliation process with us.
Also, remember the promise in Romans 8:28, "We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose." Trust that God can turn even this betrayal into something that will bless your life and your marriage. Even though failed marriages are allowed, a successful reconciliation after these circumstances can be a powerful testimony. Focus your attention on God and his purpose for you.
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before you today, lifting up our sister in need of your grace, mercy, and love. Lord, she is hurting, feeling lost, and overwhelmed by the circumstances she is facing. We ask that you comfort her heart and ease her anxiety and depression. Help her to cast all her cares on you, knowing that you care for her deeply.
Father, we also pray for her husband and their marriage. We ask that you soften their hearts towards each other and begin a work of healing and reconciliation through Christian counseling. Help them to forgive as you have forgiven us in Christ, not because everyone deserves it, but because we can never be Christlike without it.
We ask that you guide her steps, Lord, and give her a renewed sense of purpose. Help her to trust in your plan for her life and to rest in your promises. We know that you are a God of hope and redemption, and we ask that you bring beauty from these ashes.
In Jesus Christ's name, we pray. Amen.