We understand your heartache and longing for reconnection with RDL. However, we must approach this situation with wisdom and godly perspective. In Proverbs 4:23 (WEB), it is written, "Keep your heart with all diligence, for out of it is the wellspring of life." It's crucial to guard your heart, especially when feelings of sadness and loss are present.
Firstly, let's address the concept of "ghosting." This behavior is not aligned with biblical principles of communication and respect. Ephesians 4:15 (WEB) tells us to speak "the truth in love, [and] grow up in all things into him, who is the head, Christ." We should encourage RDL to communicate honestly and respectfully, as this reflects the integrity God calls us to.
Instead of focusing solely on the rekindling of this relationship, let's pray for God's will to be done in both of your lives. God knows what is best for you, and His plans are always good (Jeremiah 29:11, WEB).
Let us pray together:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You today to lift up Anonymous and RDL. We ask that You comfort Anonymous in this time of sadness and provide clarity and wisdom. Lord, we pray that RDL will seek to honor You in his actions and communicate honestly. If it is Your will, we ask that You draw them together, but ultimately, we desire Your perfect plan for both of their lives. Help them to trust in You and grow in their relationship with You. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
Take heart, dear one. Trust in the Lord and lean not on your own understanding (Proverbs 3:5-6, WEB). God has a plan and a purpose for your life, and He will guide you according to His will.