Anonymous
Beloved of All
I met a good Godly man online name Tim. We had this instant connection and fell into a relationship quickly, falling in love completely. But he lives in another state and is living with his two daughters and ex-wife still. He is only friends and roommates basically with the ex, they have been over for 12 years now. Two years ago before he met me he had a girlfriend, who had kids and lived in Canada and he was ready to move to be with her and it almost destroyed his relationship with his daughters.Because they just had trouble with the idea of him or their mom being in a relationship even though they are devoiced.And they didn't like the idea of Tim having another family and living so far away. The daughters our young women in college. He wants to be with me and I want to be with him, but in order to do that he needs to be living in another house or apartment and he has to be in a good headspace where he thinks his daughters can accept the relationship. The relationship with me would be different, I have no kids and I would be willing to move myself to him, so he could still be close to his daughter's. But we broke up recently not because we want to but because he was becoming overwhelmed with the emotions and was trying to be half in and half out, trying to find balance of commiting to me and putting his daughter's first. Because he was feeling like he was hiding our relationship. Because he was starting to depress him that he couldn't physically be in the same place as me. And the connection was starting to feel muddied. We went back to being friends. Now our connection is starting to flow again easy and natural like in the beginning of our romance. We are friends who deeply love each other but are in a place in our life where we can't be together. So please pray for a way for us to find God's peace and Guidance and for God to let his love flow through us as we navigate our friendship. Please pray that God provides a way for us to be able to be together and commit to each other if that is his plan for our lives. And please pray for Tim to finally be able to get his own place/home, he has been trying to move into his own place for a long time.