I Messed Up

[Romiech]

I messed up and made my husband angry. I was supposed to babysit our ### yr old niece today. I had already went over the babysitting schedule for the week with my husband. Her mom texts me earlier today to let me that my niece is coughing and sick and will be staying home with her grandma. I give my husband the update. About ###-### mins before ### pm my niece's mom calls me and ask if I am can still babysit. I said sure. In my mind, that is what I was supposed to do today anyway. I let my husband know and things go south. My husband asked why was I babysitting, "isn't she sick". Her mom doesn't send her over when our son is sick, so why should she send her daughter over when she is sick. Then my husband says that our niece is going to get our son sick. I think I did it because it felt like she didn't have a babysitter because she called so close to her start time for work. I didn't think I was doing anything wrong. Our son has been stressed because of the school work. Then my husband ask why did I do this. He says to me that he is so tired of all this. I didn't mean to be inconsiderate. I pray that he forgive me.

 

[Articles]

Let's bring this situation to the Lord together, seeking His guidance and forgiveness.

Firstly, it's important to acknowledge that your actions have caused distress to your husband. The Bible tells us in Ephesians 4:32, "Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you." It's clear that you didn't intend to be inconsiderate, but it's important to understand your husband's perspective and his concerns for your son's health.

In situations like these, it's crucial to communicate openly and honestly with your spouse. Proverbs 15:22 reminds us, "Without seeking advice, plans go wrong, but with many advisers, they succeed." It would have been wise to discuss the change in plans with your husband before agreeing to babysit, especially since it involved the potential exposure of your son to illness.

Let's pray together:

"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus, seeking Your forgiveness and guidance. Lord, we lift up this sister who finds herself in a difficult situation. She acted with a desire to help, but unintentionally caused distress to her husband. Father, we ask that You would grant her husband a heart of forgiveness and understanding. Help them to communicate openly and honestly, and to make decisions together that prioritize the well-being of their family. Lord, we also pray for their son, that You would protect his health and give him strength to handle his school work. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

Moving forward, it's important to consider the advice in Philippians 2:3-4, "Do nothing from rivalry or conceit, but in humility consider others more significant than yourselves. Let each of you look not only to his own interests, but also to the interests of others." This means considering your husband's concerns and your son's health above your own desires to help.

Lastly, it's important to note that the request did not mention Jesus Christ. It is only by His name that we have access to God. As it says in John 14:6, "Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me." If there is any doubt about your salvation, please place your faith in Christ, believe that He died for your sins and rose again for your justification. It is only by His name we can be saved. Acts 4:12 "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved."

 

[hostadmin]

We're here for you, sister. We've all been in situations where we've unintentionally hurt those we love. It's a tough place to be, but remember, God is always there to guide and comfort us.

In times like these, it's important to approach our spouse with humility and open communication. Proverbs 3:5-6 tells us, "Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge Him, and He shall direct your paths." Trust that God will guide you and your husband to understand each other better.

Let's pray together:

"Dear Lord, we come before You, seeking Your wisdom and grace. Help us to communicate openly and honestly with our spouses, always considering their perspective and feelings. Give us the humility to admit when we've made mistakes and the courage to ask for forgiveness. Lord, we also lift up our children to You, asking for Your protection and guidance. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

Moving forward, let's strive to put others' needs above our own, just as Jesus did. In Philippians 2:3-4, we're reminded, "Do nothing from rivalry or conceit, but in humility consider others more significant than yourselves. Let each of you look not only to his own interests, but also to the interests of others."

And remember, our faith in Jesus Christ is what unites us and gives us hope. As it says in John 14:6, "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, and the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.'"

Let's keep trusting in Him, even in the tough times. We're here to support and pray for you.

 

[ellie12]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Bashuarman]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Romiech]

Let's bring this situation to the Lord together, seeking His guidance and forgiveness.

Firstly, it's important to acknowledge that your actions have caused distress to your husband. The Bible tells us in Ephesians 4:32, "Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you." It's clear that you didn't intend to be inconsiderate, but it's important to understand your husband's perspective and his concerns for your son's health.

In situations like these, it's crucial to communicate openly and honestly with your spouse. Proverbs 15:22 reminds us, "Without seeking advice, plans go wrong, but with many advisers, they succeed." It would have been wise to discuss the change in plans with your husband before agreeing to babysit, especially since it involved the potential exposure of your son to illness.

Let's pray together:

"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus, seeking Your forgiveness and guidance. Lord, we lift up this sister who finds herself in a difficult situation. She acted with a desire to help, but unintentionally caused distress to her husband. Father, we ask that You would grant her husband a heart of forgiveness and understanding. Help them to communicate openly and honestly, and to make decisions together that prioritize the well-being of their family. Lord, we also pray for their son, that You would protect his health and give him strength to handle his school work. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

Moving forward, it's important to consider the advice in Philippians 2:3-4, "Do nothing from rivalry or conceit, but in humility consider others more significant than yourselves. Let each of you look not only to his own interests, but also to the interests of others." This means considering your husband's concerns and your son's health above your own desires to help.

Lastly, it's important to note that the request did not mention Jesus Christ. It is only by His name that we have access to God. As it says in John 14:6, "Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me." If there is any doubt about your salvation, please place your faith in Christ, believe that He died for your sins and rose again for your justification. It is only by His name we can be saved. Acts 4:12 "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved."

Thank you for this break down of the situation I created at home. This part of the verse gives me understanding and instruction of what I should be doing, “…Let each of you look not only to his own interests, but also to the interests of others.” I will need to pray Proverbs 15:22 everyday.

In Jesus Christ Name I pray that I grow from this and my husband forgive me and be patient with me. Amen.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You. Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager, Woman of God, Prayer Warrior, Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

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[hostadmin]

We continue to lift you and your family up in prayer, dear ###. Thank you for sharing your heart with us and allowing us the honor of praying on your behalf. We stand in agreement with you, seeking the Lord's guidance and healing in your situation.

If you have seen reconciliation and understanding in your marriage, we would love to hear about it. Please share a praise report so we can rejoice with you. If you're still facing challenges, don't hesitate to post a new request. We are here to walk alongside you in prayer, interceding for your family's unity and your husband's understanding.

We pray that God blesses you richly as you continue to seek Him through His son, Jesus Christ. May He grant you wisdom, patience, and love in navigating these circumstances. Trust that God is working even in this, and remember that His love for you is unfailing.

Continue to cast your cares upon Him, for He cares for you (1 Peter 5:7). We are praying for your husband's heart to be softened and for peace to reign in your home. In Jesus Name