I left the house after strife but i want to repair but she says to late !

[lovesjesus7]

broke up after strife but i read about strife and want to repair but she says too late!
My name is Robbie & this prayer is for Shannon who i love dearly the mother of my child.we are separated because i couldn't handle the strife but i am back! .Her mom died of cancer last year and her dad is needy now & using her and controlling her and influence her to keep away from me & don't know why? hes cusses a lot and non christian and now she has to be a parent to her mentally retarded 37 year old brother because her dad cant because hes lazy.I see her personality changing and cursing god lately for the first time saying(god blank) a lot like her dad. I have never seen her say that!I think Shannon is doing ungodly things, meeting a man & drinking with him behind my back to get her mind off things as her non christian friends encourage because she came home 4hrs late several times & i can smell & tell shes drinking but denies it. She is so lost & I see her drinking wine at home from what shes dealing with & talks about dying and says i wish i was never born and i am cursed!and she cries & i hold her,i give scripture and she just throws it away and say god hates me!She thinks now its easier to be single & its more stress to be with me because i am softly preaching to her & says that is stress & now i am annoying she is so mean to me lately & cold & cursing at me for no reason.I cook,i do laundry & all the chores and says she doesn't care.I want her to love me again and trust me and give us a chance and stay as a family i want it to work.I left for a while but realized i should work it out. but she said you left me in my stress!she now thinks i am conning her to get back, I am not!she struggles with trusting me & there are people trying to influence her to sin & be single and live life. I see what Satan is doing..i pray she loves me again and trust me and believes me & wants to work it out(one chance to prove to her) she said how can i believe you and i take you back and you are not there for me!I want us to get back together & raise our child together. we act like a family and both in same room only 30 minutes a day with our child and at times laughing together and cooking together cause she is a workaholic & cant sit still she says? shes to independent & never needed anyone she says ,why cant we be a family? i wish i had more time with her to repair,but goes to bed when she comes home.And says i don't have time for a relationship! yea because shes always working or with her brother at his care home! she does things with our daughter , like zoo and places ,but not with me and doesn't invite me? she says shes all i need. seems so selfish. and it hurts me so bad and she says i sound needy and clingy. times shes nice and responds & other times ignores me what do i do?i don't know who is influencing her,but that is what it seems & she says i have everyone helping me watch our daughter why do i need you really at all? and they would cook for me or clean for me so its not special that you do it. and times she thanks me. is she bipolar? or cant sit still to think what she says or does? help me because it giving me depression and i cant eat or sleep and i love her.i just wish god would fix her and she loves me again and trust me.

Robbie

 

[Articles]

May God hear your request and grant it according to his will. In Jesus Name, Amen.

 

[natasha2]

Lovesjesus7. Listen to me if you can. You will go crazy if you dont stepp back and try to find peace in God. Devil wants to confuse you and put guilt on you. You should break up for a while and pray that God fights for you. I think in this time, the most important thing is your peace. Please do it you priority. From that place of rest you can fonction well. You can be in the kingdom of God. If not, people can drag you on this side and that side all the way around. Try to find firm place in God. Jesus is your solid rock. Listen to praise songs. Ask from God to show you the solution and what should you do. I was in the similar position but i had not a child with that person. It was horrible. And since that time i know that my peace is the most important thing. GO AFTER PEACE. Everything that is not bringing you peace, dont do that, dont meet with that person till you not overcome in prayer

Find on internet scriptures about FAITH, VICTORY, OVERCOMING, WISDOM AND SPIRITUAL INSIGHT FROM GOD, read them daily. Ask God to show you anything you need to know concerning your marriage/relationship. Be in rest of God. Listen to sermons, HAVE FAITH IN GOD. EVERYTHING IS POSSIBLE TO GOD. Possibly that she is in some kind of prison, bondage, enslavement. Fight with spiritual warfare. But i dont recommand any action until you hear God about this situation. Even when she sais that you have abandoned her. You cannot help her if you are in this confused, hurting state. You cannot even help yourself. Let God be the number one in your life. Everything will then fall into place. God bless you. I pray that God will show you the way because he is THE TRUTH, THE PATH AND THE LIFE. 

 

[Anonymous]

Dude...try to calm down and read what Natasha2 wrote. She is bringing truth and HELP; she has been there and is speaking what she knows.

Get YOUR act together; you can't control Shannon, but you can control yourself.

You have a child and you need to make some decisions. Do you still live in this situation? Do you move out and establish your own home, file for custody, provide child support, etc?

Lean on God, ask God to guide you, pray for a calm mind. May God bless you!

PS

Try praying for others on this site; it might help to give you some perspective and take you out of your spiral by helping others. Bless up.

 

[Swiss Hart]

I prayed for this. In Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[JesusIsMyOnlyHope]

Trust in the unfailing love of the Lord, and in His promises.
Give Him this day and everything that it holds.
Walk in His goodness, knowing that His gentle hand will guide you and keep you.
I pray that the Lord hears your prayer requests and answers them according to His will.
In the Name of Jesus Christ I pray. Amen

 

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