I know that you shouldn’t pray or wish anything negative

[Ady]

I know that you shouldn’t pray or wish anything negative on anyone but I feel like sometimes God uses that as a lesson. If it is God’s will then my request is that my ex,John, feel the pain that I felt when he was unfaithful to me with other women. I want him to feel the pain of other women that he hurt too. He has never been faithful to anyone, ever, in his 47 years of life and cheated on his firt wife for 12 years. I knew that going into it but I believe that there is a great man hiding deep inside him & I thought that God could use me to being it out. He told me he wanted to be a better person & I think he needs to feel what we feel to understand why he can’t do that to people. And understanding that when he feels the heartbreak that is empathy for me or empathy for others, that he knows why he feels it. That if its God’s will that he bring him back to me healed of his sexual addiction and ready to be faithful to me.

 

[Shermarie]

Heavenly Father,

There isn't anything too big or too small that you cannot handle. There isn't anything that you cannot do. Please touch and heal Ady's broken heart and heal her pain that her ex husband John has caused her from his cheating ways. God, there isn't anything that is impossible that you cannot do. The things that are impossible with man is possible with God and we know that it is possible for John to wake up and realize and feel the pain he has caused wife and others by his cheating behaviors, We know that you can work on him and make him open his eyes to his lifestyle and you and only you can change him into the man he was meant to be. Please help him remove all of his sexual addictions and bring him to a place of forgiveness and help John and Ady to learn to forgive one another and help them grow closer to you and each other. IJNA! 

 

[kbehrent]

I know that you shouldn’t pray or wish anything negative on anyone

Then why do it, except to satisfy a desire for vengeance?  Here is a passage of scripture concerning what Jesus thought about the idea.

Luke 9:53-56 (KJV)
53  And they did not receive him, because his face was as though he would go to Jerusalem.
54  And when his disciples James and John saw this, they said, Lord, wilt thou that we command fire to come down from heaven, and consume them, even as Elias did?
55  But he turned, and rebuked them, and said, Ye know not what manner of spirit ye are of.
56  For the Son of man is not come to destroy men's lives, but to save them. And they went to another village.

Jesus also said to bless those who curse you.  Do good to those who would spitefully use you. 


Luke 6:28New King James Version (NKJV)


28 bless those who curse you, and pray for those who spitefully use you.

Our goal should be the same as the goal of Jesus,  to be interested in the salvation of another person.

Yes, I have been through the same situation, but I followed the teachings of Jesus, and kept my focus on the Lord. My life has been blessed because of it. My ex-wife seems to be following the Lord more closely, she has been blessed, the kids have been blessed, and I have a close relationship with the Lord.

You want the blessings of the Lord to come upon you and manifest in your life.  And the way to have that happen is to focus  on the Lord and seek Him. I know how you feel, but the satisfaction you seek is not with a curse on another person, because even if what you want happens, it is an empty feeling and satisfaction. 

In the name of Jesus, I bless you with the life of God, His wisdom, and His comfort.  Thank you Jesus.

 

[Little Bear's Mom]

I prayed for this. In Jesus name. Amen.

 

[Ira Ashby]

I prayed for this. In Jesus Name. Amen. :heart:

Vengeance is mine saith  the Lord.

So, just pray for him.

He's going to need it where he's going.

Be good to yourself.

Remember  cheaters never win.

 

[Aloy]

I prayed for this. In Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[hostadmin]

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[Aloy]

I prayed for this. In Jesus Name. Amen.