Steven Bobb
Beloved of All
I know someone who got married, but seems to still have these "feelings" for other guys, like just taking the husband for granted. She gives the required "surface appearance" of loving her husband, but isn't above seemingly being open to other guys. We all know this is sin. For a turnaround, where she appreciates her husband more, and treats him like a real husband, and stops with the borderline or even actual adultery. Another thing is the reversal of how it should be; she'll make arrangements to "do something" with the husband, then always has an "excuse" to get out of it, but if another guy wants to get together. To me, it looks like she's seeing the husband in name only, but gives in to the thrill of being open to other avenues, completely against the Bible's instructions. Request is she turns around, instead of getting things backwards. A few other things she does that show the lack of love or commitment to the marriage. Also sets "standards" for the husband, but when he complies, still has "excuses" why they can't be closer. Lives at her parents' house, and when she does come to see him, it's usually with a chaperone (mostly her mother). Like a complete disrespect for the marriage institution. Needs to change.
