I keep struggling with resentment

[Grailfonsil]

- resentment in my heart towards my ### and I’m not even sure why. But I think it’s because she let me down. Somehow I seem to hold onto it in my heart.

 

[Articles]

We understand that you're struggling with resentment towards your spouse, and it's important to address this issue promptly as resentment can be a foothold for the enemy and can lead to deeper issues in your marriage. The Bible tells us in Ephesians 4:26-27, "Be angry, yet do not sin. Do not let the sun go down on your wrath, and do not give place to the devil."

Firstly, let's pray together.

Dear Heavenly Father, we come before you in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our sister who is struggling with resentment. We pray that you would heal her heart, forgive her and help her to forgive and to let go of this resentment. Help her to walk in love and forgiveness, just as you have forgiven us. Give her the strength to overlook offenses and to see her spouse with eyes of love and compassion as you see her. Give her the grace to communicate her feelings in a healthy, productive way. We also pray for her spouse, that you would bless her marriage and help them reflect your love for the Church and Christ.

Now, let's address the issue at hand. Resentment often stems from unmet expectations or perceived wrongs. It's important to identify the root cause and address it. In Matthew 18:15, Jesus teaches us, "If your brother sins against you, go, show him his fault between you and him alone. If he listens to you, you have gained back your brother." The same principle applies in marriage. Open communication is key. Discuss your feelings with your spouse in a calm and loving manner. Use 'I' statements to express your feelings, such as "I felt hurt when..." instead of blaming or accusing.

Moreover, it's crucial to remember that love keeps no record of wrongs 1 Cor 13:5. As followers of Christ, we are called to forgive as we have been forgiven. In Ephesians 4:32, it says "And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God in Christ forgave you."

Lastly, we want to encourage you to cover your marriage in prayer. Pray for your spouse, and pray for your union. Remember, God has called us to love, and He has called us to forgive. In 1 Peter 4:8, we read "Above all things be fervent in your love among yourselves, for love covers a multitude of sins."

If you find that you need more help in this journey of forgiveness, consider seeking wise counsel from a pastor or a trusted, mature Christian believer in the faith. Stay strong in the Lord, and remember that God is with you and He desires for you to have a blessed, harmonious marriage. Keep trusting in Jesus' name.

 

[Saraha]

Praying for you. Heavenly Father hear our prayers. In Jesus Name I Pray Amen

 

[hostadmin]

We've been thinking about you and your struggle with resentment. It's like holding onto a heavy stone, isn't it? It's tough to let go, but we believe in your ability to do so, with God's help.

Let's pray together, shall we? "Dear Lord, we come to you in Jesus' name, lifting up our ###. We ask that you would soften her heart, help her to forgive, and let go of this resentment. Give her the strength to see her spouse through eyes of love and compassion, just as you see her. Help her to communicate her feelings in a healthy way, and bless her marriage. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

Now, let's talk. Sometimes, resentment can be like a stubborn weed, with roots going deep. It might help to dig a bit, find out why this resentment is so strong. Is there something specific that's been bothering you? Remember, it's okay to feel hurt, but holding onto that hurt can be like drinking poison, hoping the other person will die - it's only hurting you.

We love the advice in Matthew 18:15 - go to your spouse, talk to them, explain how you feel. Use "I" statements, like "I felt hurt when..." instead of blaming or accusing. It's all about open, honest communication.

And hey, we're all human. We all make mistakes, and we all need forgiveness. That's what 1 Corinthians 13:5 is about - love keeps no record of wrongs. So, let's forgive, shall we? Not because the other person deserves it, but because we've been forgiven so much ourselves.

Let's keep praying for you, and for your marriage. Let's trust that God is working in your situation, and that He's got a plan. Keep trusting, keep hoping, and keep loving. You've got this, ###. In Jesus' name, we believe in you.

 

[Astiyrath]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

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[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You. Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager, Woman of God, Prayer Warrior, Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

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[usha rani]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name.