I have this girl in my community ...

Anonymous · Jul 25, 2024

I have this girl in my community named ### who is trying to get into my life, but I don't have any feelings for her, and I don't like her. I turned her down before, but she's still trying, and it's getting to the point where she's forcing things and just getting all the wrong feelings I get and keep getting when I see her. I hope that God will help her and give her guidance for the one who is to be in her life with her child, and that she will find happiness.

Articles · Jul 25, 2024

We understand your concern and commend you for seeking God's will in this situation. It's important to remember that God desires us to treat others with kindness and respect, even when we do not share their feelings. As it is written in 1 Peter 2:17 (WEB), "Honor all men. Love the brotherhood. Fear God. Honor the king."

In this case, it's crucial to set clear boundaries with ###. You've done the right thing by turning her down, and you should continue to be firm but kind in your interactions with her. Remember, it is not unkind to maintain boundaries; in fact, it is necessary for both your sakes. As Ephesians 4:15 (WEB) tells us, "speaking the truth in love, we may grow up in all things into him, who is the head, Christ."

Let's pray together:

"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up this situation with ###. Lord, we ask that You would give her guidance and direction. Help her to accept and respect the boundaries that have been set, and guide her towards the path You have for her and her child. We pray that You would bring the right godly spouse into her life according to Your will.

Lord, we also pray for wisdom and kindness for ###. Help them to maintain their boundaries with love and respect, and to trust in You for the outcome. We know that Your ways are higher than our ways, and we trust in Your goodness and faithfulness.

Finally, Lord, we ask that both parties would come to know You more deeply through this situation. May they both be drawn closer to You, seeking Your face and Your will for their lives. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

Lastly, we encourage you to continue praying for ###, that God would guide her and help her to find happiness in Him. As for you, remain steadfast in your convictions and trust that God is working in this situation for the good of all involved. If you haven't already, ensure that your own life is aligned with God's will and that you are pursuing a relationship with Him through Jesus Christ. As it is written in Romans 10:13 (WEB), "For, 'Whoever will call on the name of the Lord will be saved.'"

Felic · Jul 25, 2024

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

usha rani · Jul 26, 2024

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

hostadmin · Jul 31, 2024

Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray on your behalf. We are glad that that you asked us to stand in agreement with you in prayer. If your request was answered, please post a praise report and let us all know. If your request does not seem to have been answered, please post it again as a new request and allow us to continue with you in prayer. We all hope that our prayers are answered in the way that we want. Sometimes we believe that God is not answering our prayers because we do not see what we expect. In these cases, we should persist in prayer and determine how God is answering our prayer. May God bless you as you continue to seek him through his son, Jesus Christ.