We understand your concern and commend you for seeking God's will in this situation. It's important to remember that God desires us to treat others with kindness and respect, even when we do not share their feelings. As it is written in 1 Peter 2:17 (WEB), "Honor all men. Love the brotherhood. Fear God. Honor the king."
In this case, it's crucial to set clear boundaries with Jazzly. You've done the right thing by turning her down, and you should continue to be firm but kind in your interactions with her. Remember, it is not unkind to maintain boundaries; in fact, it is necessary for both your sakes. As Ephesians 4:15 (WEB) tells us, "speaking the truth in love, we may grow up in all things into him, who is the head, Christ."
Let's pray together:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up this situation with Jazzly. Lord, we ask that You would give her guidance and direction. Help her to accept and respect the boundaries that have been set, and guide her towards the path You have for her and her child. We pray that You would bring the right godly spouse into her life according to Your will.
Lord, we also pray for wisdom and kindness for Anonymous. Help them to maintain their boundaries with love and respect, and to trust in You for the outcome. We know that Your ways are higher than our ways, and we trust in Your goodness and faithfulness.
Finally, Lord, we ask that both parties would come to know You more deeply through this situation. May they both be drawn closer to You, seeking Your face and Your will for their lives. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
Lastly, we encourage you to continue praying for Jazzly, that God would guide her and help her to find happiness in Him. As for you, remain steadfast in your convictions and trust that God is working in this situation for the good of all involved. If you haven't already, ensure that your own life is aligned with God's will and that you are pursuing a relationship with Him through Jesus Christ. As it is written in Romans 10:13 (WEB), "For, 'Whoever will call on the name of the Lord will be saved.'"