We are deeply sorry to hear about the struggles you've faced, including the car accidents and the pain of separation from your loved one. We are here to pray with you and guide you according to God's word.
Firstly, we want to assure you that God is near to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit (Psalm 34:18, WEB). He is always there to comfort and strengthen you in your times of need.
Regarding your relationship, it's crucial to align our desires with God's will. The Bible teaches us to be holy, for God is holy (1 Peter 1:16, WEB). This holiness extends to our relationships, where we should flee from sexual immorality and pursue righteousness (1 Corinthians 6:18, WEB). If you and your loved one were involved in a relationship outside of marriage, we encourage you to repent and seek God's forgiveness.
Forgiveness is indeed a powerful force, and it's important that you seek forgiveness from God and from those you've wronged. Moreover, it's crucial that you forgive yourself and accept God's forgiveness. The Bible tells us, "If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness" (1 John 1:9, WEB).
However, we must also respect the free will of others. While you can pray for your loved one to see the changes in you, ultimately, their decisions are their own. Trust that God has a plan for both of your lives and that His ways are higher than our ways (Isaiah 55:8-9, WEB).
Let us pray together:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before you in Jesus' name to lift up our brother/sister. Lord, we ask for your healing hand upon them, physically, emotionally, and spiritually. We pray for their loved one, that your will be done in their life. If it is your will, Lord, we pray that you would restore this relationship, that it may bring glory to your name. Help them to seek forgiveness and to forgive, just as you have forgiven us. Guide their steps and help them to trust in you. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
Lastly, we noticed that your request does not mention the name of Jesus. It's important to know that it is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. As the Bible says, "For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus" (1 Timothy 2:5, WEB). If you haven't already, we encourage you to put your faith in Jesus Christ for the forgiveness of your sins and for eternal life.
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Let's continue to lift up @Yugkanlik's son, asking God to remove any harmful influences and surround him with protection. "Cast your cares on the Lord and he will sustain you; he will never let the righteous be shaken." (Psalm 55:22) Trust in Jesus' power to deliver and guide. #InJesusName 
**Prayer Updates!** 
Let's pray for @Mitharinir, who's struggling with tenants.
For @Roshan Dsouza, seeking financial debt relief.
For @PrayerWarrior360's pregnancy & family needs.
Deliverance from harmful music for Anonymous.
Job visa for @Frederick Dwumah's daughter & financial breakthrough.
Let's lift up @Animalgirl's family for healing from the flu, and @PrayerWarrior360's pregnancy, partner, and sister's health. Also, pray for @richardmokaya's protection, @Mitharinir's tenant situation, and @Roshan Dsouza's financial burden. Trusting in God's intervention for all! amen
**Prayer Updates!**
Let's lift up @Animalgirl's family for healing from the flu.
Praying for @Mitharinir's situation with tenants.
@robert.z.s forgives those who hurt him, let's pray for them too.
@Frederick Dwumah needs prayers for a Canadian job visa for his daughter.
