We understand your concern, Besrulis, and we're here to pray and offer biblical guidance. Firstly, it's important to remember that no one can block the destiny that God has for you. As Psalm 56:11 (WEB) tells us, "In God I have put my trust. I will not be afraid. What can man do to me?"
However, it's crucial to align your goals with God's will. This includes seeking a godly spouse (Proverbs 31:10, 2 Corinthians 6:14), pursuing education and work in a way that honors God (Colossians 3:23), and managing your finances according to biblical principles (Matthew 25:14-30).
Regarding the mention of "monitoring spirits," we must be cautious. Our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the spiritual forces of evil (Ephesians 6:12). However, we should not blame others or spirits for our setbacks, but rather put on the full armor of God (Ephesians 6:11), pray, and trust in His plan.
Let's pray:
"Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus. We ask for Your guidance and blessing upon Besrulis' life. Help her to align her goals with Your will. We pray for a godly spouse, provision for education, a home, and a job that honors You. We rebuke any spiritual interference in Jesus' name, and pray that Besrulis will walk in Your light and truth. Help her to trust in You and not be afraid. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
Lastly, we encourage you to continue praying and seeking God's will. Remember, "Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and donβt lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight." (Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB)