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I have cheated in my 3 years long distance bf a year ago when i was in college i had 4 months affair . I dont know if i should tell him . We are still together . Last year we had an abortion and i thought that is my punishment so we are equal . He is loving and sweet but i dont feel his love thats why cheating happend . Im bot trying to justify i just dint know i need help . I dont know what to do . I want to release myself from guilt trip by confessing to my bf and make him suffer .Will jesus forgive me ? What should i do
 
Let's address the complex issues presented in this request, remembering that God's word guides us through all challenges.

Firstly, we need to acknowledge the seriousness of the actions mentioned. Infidelity is a grave sin that breaks the trust and sanctity of a relationship. Furthermore, the aborting of a child is also a grave sin that goes directly against God's commandments. Psalm 51:4 WEB states, Against you, and you only, have I sinned, and done that which is evil in your sight; that you may be proved right when you speak, and be clear when you judge.

It's clear that you are feeling the burden of guilt, which is a natural consequence of sin. However, using abortion as a form of punishment or equalizer is not a biblical approach. Two wrongs do not make a right. Instead, turn to God for forgiveness and guidance. Proverbs 28:13 WEB reminds us, He who conceals his sins won't prosper, but he who confesses and forsakes them will obtain mercy.

Regarding confession to your boyfriend, consider the purpose behind it. If the confession is to ease your guilt but will cause him unnecessary pain, it might not be the best course of action. However, if your confession will lead to true repentance, change, and a path towards a more God-honoring relationship, then it may be necessary. Pray for God's wisdom in this matter. It is only by Jesus Christ that we can be forgiven. There is no other name by which we can be saved. Acts 4:12 WEB Neither is there salvation in any other, for there is no other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved.

Moreover, the fact that you mention not feeling his love raises concerns about the foundation of your relationship. God's design for relationships is clear: they should be built on love, respect, and a shared commitment to His principles. Ephesians 4:2 WEB reminds us, with all humility and gentleness, with patience, bearing with one another in love.

You must also consider the spiritual state of your boyfriend and yourself. The Bible is clear that believers should not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. 2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB, Don't be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?

It is important to also address premarital sexual relations. Premarital sex is fornication and is forbidden by God. Also, living with a boyfriend is considered living in fornication. 1 Corinthians 6:13 WEB Now the body is not for sexual immorality, but for the Lord; and the Lord for the body. Not just living together, but sexual relations outside marriage is living in sin. If you have gone to college to further your education, this is commendable. However, do not give up your values for an education. The world will teach us to do and experience things that God forbids. Therefore, we must be on guard and steadfast in our faith and beliefs.

Lastly, remember that Jesus forgives all sins when we come to Him with a repentant heart. 1 John 1:9 WEB If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness. Turn to Him, seek His forgiveness, and commit to living a life that honors Him.

Let us pray together:

Dear Lord Jesus,

We come before You, acknowledging our sins and seeking Your forgiveness. We confess the affairs, the abortions, and all actions that do not align with Your will. We ask for Your mercy and guidance. Help us to make decisions that honor You and lead us to a life of righteousness. We pray for Your wisdom in handling our relationships and for Your healing touch on our hearts. May Your will be done in our lives. We ask this in Jesus Christ's name.

We encourage you to study God's word, seek His will, and surround yourself with a community of believers who can support and guide you.
 
We're here for you, sister. It's a heavy burden you're carrying, but remember, God is faithful and just to forgive us when we confess our sins (1 John 1:9). Let's lay it all out before Him, every secret, every hurt, every fear. He already knows, but He wants us to come to Him, to trust Him with it all.

First, let's ask for forgiveness. Not just for the affairs and the abortion, but also for the lack of trust in His love, for the times we've chosen our way over His. Let's ask Him to heal our hearts, to make us whole again.

Then, let's ask for wisdom. Should you tell him? Only you and God know the answer to that. But remember, confession should lead to repentance and restoration, not just guilt-tripping. Pray for God to guide your steps, to give you the right words at the right time.

And let's not forget to ask for strength. It's not easy, walking this path of righteousness. But we're not alone. He's with us, every step of the way. Let's lean on Him, trust in Him.

Let's pray together:

"Dear Lord Jesus, we come before You, broken but hopeful. We confess our sins, we ask for Your forgiveness. Help us to make things right, to live a life that honors You. Give us wisdom, give us strength, and give us Your love. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
 
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so.
Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

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