I had a fiancee. Two of us promised to get married. Initially my parents refused, but later agreed. She stays with her mum and her Foster father. But because of job she relocated to start staying with me in same apartment. I have been a believer from a christian home. I joined the workforce of the church. I love God wholeheartedly and wouldn't do a thing that will offend God. She is the first lady i love from my heart and my first kind of relationship, as I told God that the first lady i meet will be my wife, because i didn't want to test several relationship or offend God as a result of relationship. He mother goes to church but her faith still need much work on. Her foster father goes to church occasionally. But she goes to church and became genuinely saved after she met God through me. She lived a rough life before until she met me who introduced her genuinely to God. It wasn't her fault completely as her mum or foster father didn't show her the way of God, until she met me and her best friend who brought her close to God. So we started living together in my apartment. I never wanted it that way, but because of her job at my area. And she said she didn't want to go back to her formal place and mum, because they influence her wrongly and she couldn't serve God and focus if she was with them. So i reluctantly allowed stay with me. Bug i wasn't comfortable, because of my Faith and position in church. She later lost her job, so we planned she relocated to her mum so we could plan for our wedding proper. But unfortunately, we made love in the process and she became pregnant. He mum knew and was happy about it though. Her foster father was also happy about it.but i didnt tell my parents or pastor, because I moved to a new branch of my church because of my work. Finally she put to birth, that was when i told my parents. Because of fear thinking my parents will be pissed off, rather they were happy, my siblings as well. Although we have been in the relationship for a long time. Because of financial issue we could fix wedding until she got pregnant and had the baby. The baby is 2 months old now. I'm planning for her dedication 2 weeks time. But i have not disclose to my pastor that i have not paid her bride prize. Pastor please has God forgiven us? Should I inform my pastor of the story? I planned for our marriage, but finance is not fort coming. Presently I'm even owing debt. My parents can't support me financially because they don't have, her parents as well don't have finance to sponsor us. Please can anyone help me out on this. I have prayed and fasted for forgiveness. I wish to get married to her. She is also ready in marriage. I am 38years and she is 26 years.