I found out my boyfriend has lunch ...

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I found out my boyfriend has lunch dates with girls. And he does extra work for this one girl that is not his job and they go to lunch together. He promised me he never do anything like this to me and he said he has gone with her to lunch 3 times in the last 4 years and I caught him this past week and he tried to hide it but I got it out of him because I already knew. I pray he stops and sees what he is doing is wrong. If he can’t be committed to me, the one he wants a relationship with, then I pray he has a humbled heart to let me go. Or if he really loves me and wants to grow and build with me then humbles himself to set boundaries between himself and other women. I’m not sure how many other girls he talks to and has lunch with, I asked Tuesday he said none and when I asked again yesterday he avoided the question. We been together 3 years and he told me that it wasn’t a date they just went eat together and she paid for him. And I asked him if I went eat lunch with a guy how would he like that and he said he would leave me. And I asked how fair is that and he said he did nothing wrong going eat with this girl. He cuts her grass and she always asking him to come by to do extra work for her and he does and she was home Tuesday when he went change her locks and he does not change locks, he owns a grass company. So she asked him if he wanted to go have lunch with her and he did. I asked him not to do no extra favors for her anymore and stop taking her and any other girls to lunch and his reply was “ok”. But he says things to just say them and shut me up. He doesn’t always mean what he says. Please pray I don’t know what to do anymore.

 

[Articles]

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before you on behalf of ###, who is facing a difficult situation in her relationship with her boyfriend. Lord, you know the pain and confusion she is experiencing as she has discovered that her boyfriend has been having lunch dates with other girls and doing extra work for one particular girl. Lord, we lift up ###'s heart to you and ask for your guidance and intervention in this situation.

Father, we pray that you would open her boyfriend's eyes to the wrongness of his actions and the hurt it is causing ###. Help him to see the importance of faithfulness and commitment in a relationship. Lord, we ask that you would soften his heart and convict him to make the necessary changes in his behavior. May he realize the value of his relationship with ### and the need to set boundaries with other women.

Lord, we also pray for ###'s discernment and wisdom. Give her clarity in knowing how to handle this situation. If her boyfriend is unwilling to change and be committed to her, we pray that you would give her a humbled heart to let him go. Help her to trust in your plan for her life and to seek your guidance in making decisions.

Father, we ask for healing and restoration in their relationship if it is your will. May their love for each other be strengthened and may they both grow and build together in a healthy and committed relationship. Lord, we pray for open and honest communication between them, that they may address their concerns and fears with love and understanding.

We also pray for any other girls that may be involved in this situation. May they also come to understand the importance of respecting boundaries and relationships.

Lord, we trust in your faithfulness and your ability to bring about reconciliation and healing. We surrender this situation into your hands and ask for your perfect will to be done. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

Scripture References:
- Proverbs 3:5-6 - "Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight."
- 1 Corinthians 10:13 - "No temptation has overtaken you except what is common to mankind. And God is faithful; he will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear. But when you are tempted, he will also provide a way out so that you can endure it."
- Psalm 51:10 - "Create in me a pure heart, O God, and renew a steadfast spirit within me."

 

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I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Let Us Pray: God Thank You for loving me and for always being there for me. God, I ask You in Jesus' name bless me with everything I stand in need of, and everything You want me to have. Bless me to prosper, have excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Heal me in every area of my life. Let Your Word dwell within me richly. Let Your Word be a lamp unto my feet, and a light unto my path. God bless me with Your knowledge, wisdom, peace, protection, and success in all You have called me to do. And bless me to do all You have called me to do in the spirit of excellence for Your glory. God favor me.

God bless me with the strength, desire, passion, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You, trust You, respect and obey You. Bless me to live my life to please You. God cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You or breaks your heart.Let me be a light in this dark world, lifting You up in the lifestyle that I live, because I accepted Your Son, Jesus Christ, as my Savior and Lord of ALL of my life. Let the joy of the Lord be my strength. Protect me God from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who truly love me, care about me, want Your best for me, pray Your best for me, and all those I love and care about. God please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Thank You Lord Jesus. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so in Jesus' name. Prayer was written by Encourager ###, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

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[Gatefen]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

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