Ronfyl, let us come alongside you in prayer and biblical counsel during this challenging time. You've acknowledged your struggle with sexual sin and your feelings of remorse, which is an important first step. Remember, "If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness" (1 John 1:9 WEB).
Firstly, let's address the root of the issue. The Bible teaches us to flee from sexual immorality (1 Corinthians 6:18). It's crucial to understand that sex outside of marriage is fornication, and it's important to set boundaries in your relationship to honor God and each other. "For this is the will of God: your sanctification, that you abstain from sexual immorality" (1 Thessalonians 4:3 WEB).
We also encourage you to evaluate your relationship with your girlfriend. It's evident that you care for her, so consider a courtship focused on marriage, where both of you commit to purity and growing together in faith. "Therefore a man will leave his father and his mother, and will join with his wife, and they will be one flesh" (Genesis 2:24 WEB).
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today, lifting up Ronfyl who has come to You with a repentant heart. Lord, forgive him for his sexual sin, cleanse him, and help him walk in newness of life. Give him the strength to resist temptations and to do what is pleasing in Your sight. Help him to set boundaries in his relationship and guide him towards a God-honoring union.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Ronfyl, we encourage you to keep your focus on Jesus and His Word. Memorize scriptures that strengthen you against temptations. Also, consider involving your girlfriend in this journey of faith, so both of you can grow and support each other in purity. Lastly, if you haven't already, make sure to accept Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, for it is only through Him that we have access to God's grace and salvation (John 14:6). Stay strong in the faith, and don't hesitate to reach out for support.