I feel so unhappy with my wife what do I do.

[Andree]

I have lost all love for my wife like she makes me so unhappy please pray for me I don't know what to do. She is like terrorizing this relationship she can be horrible most of the time . She gaslights me so much

 

[Articles]

We are truly saddened to hear about the difficulties you're facing in your marriage, Andree. Let us first remind you of God's design for marriage, as seen in Ephesians 5:25, "Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself up for it." Marriage is a sacred commitment, and it's important to remember that love is not just a feeling, but also a choice and an action.

However, it's clear that you're experiencing emotional abuse, which is not acceptable in any relationship. Proverbs 4:23 warns us, "Keep your heart with all diligence, for out of it is the wellspring of life." It's crucial to protect your heart and mind from harm.

Let us pray for you:

"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up Andree and his marriage. Lord, You know the struggles they're facing, the pain, and the confusion. We pray for Your divine intervention, that You would bring healing, understanding, and peace to their home. Expose any deception and bring truth to light. Guide Andree with Your wisdom, and help him to love his wife as You love the church. But also, Lord, protect him from harm and give him the strength to set boundaries when necessary. Draw both of them closer to You, and help them to seek Your will together. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

Andree, it's important that you confront the issue of gaslighting with your wife in a calm and loving manner. It may be helpful to seek counseling from a professional who can provide tools and strategies for healthy communication. Remember, Colossians 3:13 tells us to bear with one another and forgive one another.

However, if the situation becomes unbearable or unsafe, it's important to seek help and consider your safety. While God hates divorce, as Malachi 2:16 tells us, He also hates abuse and harm.

Lastly, we noticed that your request did not mention Jesus. It's important to remember that it is through Jesus Christ that we have access to God, as it says in John 14:6, "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.'" If you have not already, we encourage you to put your faith in Jesus Christ for your salvation and for the strength to endure this trial.

Stay strong in the Lord, Andree, and remember that He is with you in this difficult time.

 

[hostadmin]

We're really sorry to hear about the struggles you're facing, friend. It's tough when the person you love seems to be causing you so much unhappiness. We want you to know that we're here for you, praying for you and your marriage.

In times like these, it's important to remember that love is more than just a feeling, it's also an action. As it says in 1 Corinthians 13:7, "Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things." It's not easy, but we believe that God can give you the strength to keep loving your wife, even in the face of her hurtful behavior.

We've been thinking about that verse you mentioned, where it talks about gaslighting. It's not okay for your wife to make you feel like you're crazy or wrong when you know you're not. That's not love, and it's not healthy. We're praying for you to have the courage to talk to her about this, in a way that's calm and respectful, but also firm. Maybe you could even share this verse with her, and ask her to join you in seeking help together.

We're also praying for your safety. We know that God hates abuse, and we want you to know that it's okay to prioritize your own well-being. If things get too dangerous, please don't hesitate to reach out to a trusted friend, family member, or even a local shelter.

And remember, friend, you're not alone in this. As Romans 8:35 says, "Who shall separate us from the love of Christ? Shall trouble or hardship or persecution or famine or nakedness or danger or sword?" No, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him who loved us. You've got Jesus on your side, and you've got us praying for you too.

Let's keep trusting in God, and keep loving each other, just as Jesus loves us.

 

[Rosyanne]

Praying for this in Jesus Name.

 

[Katiec]

I have lost all love for my wife like she makes me so unhappy please pray for me I don't know what to do. She is like terrorizing this relationship she can be horrible most of the time . She gaslights me so much

May Jesus bind up the demons in Andree’s wife and cast them out!! May Jesus soften her heart and restore a loving marriage.
When she goes off on you, just say “I’m praying for you”, and then walk away. Do that every time she acts out. It will make her start thinking. Tell everyone you know to pray for her. There is power in numbers.
God bless you with strength and courage to do what is right. In Jesus name amen

 

[Antitypogeo]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[usha rani]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)


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[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[hostadmin]

We continue to uphold you in our prayers, dear brother, ever since you shared your heartfelt concerns about your marriage. We are honored that you have allowed us to stand in agreement with you in prayer.

If God has begun to move in your marriage and you have seen signs of improvement, we would be delighted to hear about it. Please share a praise report so that we can all rejoice with you. If your situation at home has not changed please return to us. Come back and allow us to continue standing with you in prayer.

As we wait for Gods answer, bible prophecy makes it clear that trials will come. For the trials that are common to man, like marital strife, Jesus has provided a way to escape and to bear them. We are confident that the way you are going, you are covered by His grace.

We are continuing to pray for you, asking God to give you His wisdom, patience, and love. It only takes a tiny mustard seed of Bitterness from your spouse against you, to seemingly poison your ability to return agape love. There is an old song that goes: "art thou able" stated another way, "Lord are you able" to keep me from . . . "

Forgiveness is the basis for reconciliation. And, Forgiveness is the basis for all romance. We are praying that your wife may become the wife of your youth and that your love for her would be restored and even strengthened. We are praying that God would work in her life and in your life, transforming both of you into His likeness. It only takes a new way of thinking about your loved one, to begin to see her as "bone of my bone, flesh of my flesh."