Justin, we understand that you're going through a difficult situation with your grandmother, and we're here to pray with you and provide biblical guidance.
Firstly, it's important to remember the commandment to honor our parents, and by extension, our grandparents. "Honor your father and your mother, as Yahweh your God commanded you;" (Deuteronomy 5:16 WEB). This doesn't mean we should allow toxic behavior, but rather, we should approach the situation with love, respect, and wisdom.
It's clear that you're hurting, and we want to address that. We must remember that in Christ, we are delivered from all curses. "Christ redeemed us from the curse of the law, having become a curse for us. For it is written, 'Cursed is everyone who hangs on a tree;'" (Galatians 3:13 WEB). Instead of viewing your grandmother as a curse, pray for her and ask God to bless her and guide her words and actions.
Instead of asking God to prevent her from speaking to you, pray for wisdom and discernment on how to handle her words. "The prudent man brings forth out of his treasure of wisdom, but the mouth of the foolish bleeds folly." (Proverbs 15:2 WEB). Also, consider setting boundaries in a respectful and loving way.
Let's pray together:
Dear Lord Jesus, we come before You today to lift up Justin and his grandmother. We pray for healing in their relationship and ask that You fill their hearts with love, understanding, and wisdom. Help Justin to honor his grandmother while setting healthy boundaries. Guide her words and actions, and bless her abundantly. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Remember, Justin, it's only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. "For 'Whoever will call on the name of the Lord will be saved.'" (Romans 10:13 WEB). Keep trusting in Him, and He will guide you through this situation.
Lastly, consider talking to your grandmother openly about your feelings. Communication is key in any relationship, and it's possible she's unaware of the pain she's causing. Do this in a spirit of love and gentleness, and trust God for the outcome.