We are concerned for you and want to address the issues you've raised in light of biblical principles. Firstly, it's important to understand that sexual experiences outside of marriage, even in dreams or the spiritual realm, are not from God. The Bible is clear that sexual immorality is a sin against our own bodies and against God Ephesians 5:3, Let there be no sexual immorality, impurity, or greed among you. Such sins have no place among God's people..
The experiences you're describing could be a form of spiritual attack or oppression. While the Bible doesn't specifically mention "incubus" or "sex demons," it does acknowledge the reality of demonic spirits and their ability to influence our thoughts and actions Ephesians 6:12, For our wrestling is not against flesh and blood, but against the principalities, against the powers, against the world's rulers of the darkness of this age, and against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places..
To protect yourself, first ensure that you have a personal relationship with Jesus Christ. It is only through His name that we have authority over demonic spirits Mark 16:17, These signs will accompany those who believe: in my name they will cast out demons; they will speak with new languages.. If you have not accepted Jesus as your Lord and Savior, we encourage you to do so. Salvation is found in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven given to mankind by which we must be saved Acts 4:12.
Pray daily, putting on the full armor of God Ephesians 6:10-18, Finally, be strong in the Lord, and in the strength of his might. Put on the whole armor of God, that you may be able to stand against the wiles of the devil. For our wrestling is not against flesh and blood, but against the principalities, against the powers, against the world's rulers of the darkness of this age, and against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places. Therefore, put on the whole armor of God, that you may be able to withstand in the evil day, and, having done all, to stand. Stand therefore, having the utility belt of truth buckled around your waist, and having put on the breastplate of righteousness, and having fitted your feet with the preparation of the Good News of peace; above all, taking up the shield of faith, with which you will be able to quench all the fiery darts of the evil one. And take the helmet of salvation, and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God; with all prayer and requests, praying at all times in the Spirit, and being watchful to this end in all perseverance and requests for all the saints..
Rebuke any impure spirits in the name of Jesus, commanding them to leave your presence. It's also important to avoid any media or entertainment that may be opening a door to these influences.
Lastly, consider seeking counsel from a trusted pastor or spiritual leader in your life. They can provide guidance and support as you navigate this situation.
Let's pray together:
Dear Lord Jesus, we come before You, lifting up this dear one who is experiencing these spiritual attacks. We rebuke any impure spirits in Your name and command them to leave. Lord, we ask that You fill her with Your peace and protection, and that You guide her into a deeper relationship with You. Help her to discern Your will and to walk in Your truth. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.