I feel alone, am lonely, abandoned, and isolated from everyone/thing

[Taerthall]

I feel like I could curl up in a ball, and scream non stop until my lungs give out. I love my job, and am thankful for the Lord for it, and for my car. I haven't been to church in over 2 years, mainly because of work, but I also feel unwelcomed. The people there are friendly, and will even acknowledge my presence, but beyond asking how I am, and how's work, they don't talk to me. I haven't been invited to any kind of event, even non church related ones, in like 10-15 years. And, when I was invited, they barely would acknowledge my existence. They claim to see me as a friend, but never act it. I've never had a reason to invite them first to anywhere, and honestly, I wouldn't know for what. I was never a sociable guy. Even in school, I was always the loner. Barely any friends. Been in only one relationship, and been longing for another since then (about 16 years now). There's a friend I like, but it's hard to gauge how she feels about me, and as much as I would love to ask her out, our communication isn't the greatest (sadly, it's the best I've had in 20 years) and hanging out is mostly nonexistent, if it wasn't for the fact that I hired her for a photoshoot (that occurred a few weeks ago, as of posting this). While I very much enjoyed our time together (it was just us two) it's still impossible to gauge how she feels about me. It seems like every year less and less people acknowledge my birthday, to the point where next year I wouldn't be surprised if no one, not even my parents, acknowledge it. I know to trust in the Lord's perfect timing, it's just at 32 years, and counting, it feels like something would've happened by now, besides getting an amazing job (that I would never have dreamed of) and a cool new car.

All I ask is simple:

1. To be loved, and to love in return/have a wife and kids
2. Great, Godly/God fearing friends who actually care about me (wife included) who love me for who I am, and will help me grow, and be there for me, and would love to hang out (even online) and actually invite me to their weddings.
3. To be able to move out and have a place of my own

 

[EnricoLange]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Articles]

We understand your feelings of loneliness and isolation, Taerthall, but we want to remind you that you are never alone when you have Jesus Christ in your life. As it is written in Hebrews 13:5 (WEB), "For he has said, 'I will in no way leave you, neither will I in any way forsake you.'"

Firstly, we want to address your struggle with feeling unwelcomed at church. It's important to remember that the church is not just a building or the people within it, but it is the body of Christ. We encourage you to seek out a church where you feel a sense of community and belonging. As it is written in Acts 2:42 (WEB), "They continued steadfastly in the apostles' teaching and fellowship, in the breaking of bread, and prayer."

Regarding your desire for a relationship, we want to encourage you to seek God's will in this area of your life. We believe in the sanctity of marriage as a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman, as outlined in the Bible. As it is written in 1 Corinthians 7:2 (WEB), "But because of sexual immorality, let each man have his own wife, and let each woman have her own husband." We encourage you to pursue relationships that align with biblical principles and to seek a godly spouse.

We also want to address your feeling of being overlooked on your birthday. Remember that your value is not determined by the acknowledgment of others, but by the love that God has for you. As it is written in Psalm 139:14 (WEB), "I will give thanks to you, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made. Your works are wonderful. My soul knows that very well."

Let us pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You today to lift up Taerthall. Lord, we ask that You comfort him in his feelings of loneliness and isolation. remind him of Your unfailing love and presence in his life. Guide him to a church where he can feel a sense of community and belonging. We ask that You provide him with godly friends who will love and support him. Lord, we also ask that You guide him in his desire for a relationship. Help him to seek Your will and to pursue a godly spouse. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

Lastly, we want to encourage you to continue trusting in the Lord's perfect timing. As it is written in Romans 8:28 (WEB), "We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose." Keep trusting in God and His plan for your life.

 

[Felic]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Stitcher]

I have prayed for this. In Jesus' name, Amen.

 

[BroJody]

I feel like I could curl up in a ball, and scream non stop until my lungs give out. I love my job, and am thankful for the Lord for it, and for my car. I haven't been to church in over 2 years, mainly because of work, but I also feel unwelcomed. The people there are friendly, and will even acknowledge my presence, but beyond asking how I am, and how's work, they don't talk to me. I haven't been invited to any kind of event, even non church related ones, in like 10-15 years. And, when I was invited, they barely would acknowledge my existence. They claim to see me as a friend, but never act it. I've never had a reason to invite them first to anywhere, and honestly, I wouldn't know for what. I was never a sociable guy. Even in school, I was always the loner. Barely any friends. Been in only one relationship, and been longing for another since then (about 16 years now). There's a friend I like, but it's hard to gauge how she feels about me, and as much as I would love to ask her out, our communication isn't the greatest (sadly, it's the best I've had in 20 years) and hanging out is mostly nonexistent, if it wasn't for the fact that I hired her for a photoshoot (that occurred a few weeks ago, as of posting this). While I very much enjoyed our time together (it was just us two) it's still impossible to gauge how she feels about me. It seems like every year less and less people acknowledge my birthday, to the point where next year I wouldn't be surprised if no one, not even my parents, acknowledge it. I know to trust in the Lord's perfect timing, it's just at 32 years, and counting, it feels like something would've happened by now, besides getting an amazing job (that I would never have dreamed of) and a cool new car.

All I ask is simple:

1. To be loved, and to love in return/have a wife and kids
2. Great, Godly/God fearing friends who actually care about me (wife included) who love me for who I am, and will help me grow, and be there for me, and would love to hang out (even online) and actually invite me to their weddings.
3. To be able to move out and have a place of my own

Brother is sound like you need to get a hold of New Life Ministries. They're online with program everyday and this is right up your alley. They listen, they care and they are quite instrumental in dealing with cases just like yours.
One of the hosts I start listening to maybe 35-40 years ago. Dr John Townson and Dr Henry Cloud. They later teamed up with Steve Arterburn on his program, Club New Life. I deplore that you contact them ASAP.
Just going to go in the info I just told you and it should pop up. God loves you and so don't I, Sir

 

[Graluren]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Graluren]

I feel like I could curl up in a ball, and scream non stop until my lungs give out. I love my job, and am thankful for the Lord for it, and for my car. I haven't been to church in over 2 years, mainly because of work, but I also feel unwelcomed. The people there are friendly, and will even acknowledge my presence, but beyond asking how I am, and how's work, they don't talk to me. I haven't been invited to any kind of event, even non church related ones, in like 10-15 years. And, when I was invited, they barely would acknowledge my existence. They claim to see me as a friend, but never act it. I've never had a reason to invite them first to anywhere, and honestly, I wouldn't know for what. I was never a sociable guy. Even in school, I was always the loner. Barely any friends. Been in only one relationship, and been longing for another since then (about 16 years now). There's a friend I like, but it's hard to gauge how she feels about me, and as much as I would love to ask her out, our communication isn't the greatest (sadly, it's the best I've had in 20 years) and hanging out is mostly nonexistent, if it wasn't for the fact that I hired her for a photoshoot (that occurred a few weeks ago, as of posting this). While I very much enjoyed our time together (it was just us two) it's still impossible to gauge how she feels about me. It seems like every year less and less people acknowledge my birthday, to the point where next year I wouldn't be surprised if no one, not even my parents, acknowledge it. I know to trust in the Lord's perfect timing, it's just at 32 years, and counting, it feels like something would've happened by now, besides getting an amazing job (that I would never have dreamed of) and a cool new car.

All I ask is simple:

1. To be loved, and to love in return/have a wife and kids
2. Great, Godly/God fearing friends who actually care about me (wife included) who love me for who I am, and will help me grow, and be there for me, and would love to hang out (even online) and actually invite me to their weddings.
3. To be able to move out and have a place of my own

Relationships:

We are all sinners and not perfect.
Because of that we often get into conflicts with others.
God says if two people agree it will be done.
People like taking about themselves. If you keep the conversation
on the other person and what they like they will love you.

Don't try to get your way or prove you are right just be confident
in yourself after all you are God's child and He love you.

Proverbs 17:22 tells us, "A merry heart doeth good like a medicine: but a broken spirit drieth the bones." Stay happy and your body will begin to heal itself/ Keep anger, fear and frustration out of your thoughts they can cause health problems.



Scriptures on how to treat others:

Ephesians 4:32
Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you.
Luke 6:31
And as you wish that others would do to you, do so to them.
Ephesians 4:29-32
Let no corrupting talk come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for building up, as fits the occasion, that it may give grace to those who hear. And do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, by whom you were sealed for the day of redemption. Let all bitterness and wrath and anger and clamor and slander be put away from you, along with all malice. Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you.
John 15:12
“This is my commandment, that you love one another as I have loved you.

 

[Paul / Fidelina]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen. I know that people in many churches today may feel cold. that the Love an grace of our Lord an Savior is not there, he there beside you he before you he's behind you, he watches over you your coming and going remember that he save us by going to the cross an defeating death an rose Amen

 

[Godswarriordaughter]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.