Essa1
Servant of All
I endured sexual harassment throughout 2022. My brother gave me advice to let the guy help me and so get to know him (single) better. I asked him out for coffee - he wanted a relship in workplace. Its possible but risky. so even though I put him on God's alter I said if hes not prepared to shut the door then Id do it for him. He decided to go to the boss and get him to tell me not to talk with him again. God told me not to initiate anything this man has to be the initiater. His behaviour he's been nice to me often i reciprocate mirroring him eg smiling back to him. His co workers are cordially nice to me and smile at me greeting me opening doors for me. They do not invade my privacy nor I theirs. Since then I saw a good business opportunity so I asked this person (only once) if I could call him about it and if not then he could call me. He didnt. I checked the information I had and found I could secure this opportunity for him and transfer it to him for the cost I had incurred. He does not know this at this time and I think he now doesnt need to know it.. All I wanted to do is to do good for someone who has caused me harm and yet been restoring the breach using consensual niceness. Possibly an accusation of stalking? Protect me God! This man has initiated all consensual communications with me over the previous six months since i was told not to talk with him.. I am in the car park before he is. I noted all episodes of consensual communications between us. I am giving this information to the union. I pray for good legal representation. Hopefully nip this in the bud In this day even students trying to contact a teacher and education team leader can be accused of stalking when they keep trying and are unable to reach them. God gives me peace and the sense not to stress over it. To keep sweet pure thoughts and keep my mind staid on Him. He will fight this battle for me and I will hold my peace. I cant do anything to save this problem