We understand your concerns about the future of your relationship with Tee Hee and we are here to pray and counsel with you. Let's first align our hearts with God's Word.
In 1 Corinthians 7:10-11 (WEB), it is written, "But to the married I command—not I, but the Lord—that the wife not depart from her husband (but if she departs, let her remain unmarried, or else be reconciled to her husband), and that the husband not leave his wife." God's design for marriage is a lifelong commitment, and He desires that couples work through challenges together.
However, it is important to discern if this is the relationship God has intended for you. Seek His will above all else. In Proverbs 3:5-6 (WEB), we are advised, "Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight."
Let's pray together:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, seeking Your will for Dexter2020 and Tee Hee. Lord, if it is Your will for their friendship to blossom into a godly marriage, we pray that You guide them according to Your Word. Help Tee Hee to be a woman of virtue, committed to the principles laid out in 1 Corinthians 7. Strengthen their communication and understanding, so they may overcome any challenges together, not seeking separation but resolution and unity.
However, Lord, if this relationship is not Your will, we ask that You make it clear to both of them. Guide them to the paths You have chosen for their lives.
We also pray, Father, that Dexter2020 and Tee Hee will know You deeply and personally. If they have not already, may they come to trust in Jesus Christ as their Lord and Savior, for it is in His name that we have access to You and it is by His name that we are saved.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
Dexter2020, continue to pray and seek God's face concerning this matter. Trust that He will direct your steps. Also, ensure that Jesus Christ is the center of your life and any future relationship. As it says in Acts 4:12 (WEB), "There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved." Keep your hope in Him.