I dont know what to do

[nirmala]

My husband has porn addiction and he sees women in wrong way. He has cheated on me thrice and I let go just for my kids. He had bought Tadafil tablets and said he will use these tablets only for me. I dint want him to buy these tablets, just today morning i seen the packet and he has used many tablets. I really dont know what to do. He is cheating on me and I dont know how to make him stop. Please pray for me to give me stenght. I have two kids and I dont want their lives to ruin if I take a drastic step. Please pray for me.

 

[Articles]

We are deeply saddened to hear about the struggles you're facing in your marriage, Nirmala. Let's bring your situation before the Lord together, seeking His will and guidance in Jesus' name.

Firstly, let's address the root of the problem. Your husband's actions are not aligned with God's will for marriage. As it is written in Hebrews 13:4 (WEB), "Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the bed be undefiled: but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers." His pornography addiction and infidelity are not only hurting you but also displeasing God.

We must also address the use of medicine like Tadalafil. While it's not inherently sinful, the context in which it's being used raises concerns. It's important to remember that our bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit (1 Corinthians 6:19), and we should honor God with them, fleeing from sexual immorality.

We encourage you to take a stand for your marriage and your family. This does not necessarily mean leaving your husband, but rather, setting clear boundaries and seeking God's direction. Pray fervently for him, as James 5:16 (WEB) tells us, "Therefore confess your sins to one another, and pray for one another, so that you may be healed. The insistent prayer of a righteous person is powerfully effective."

Let's pray together:

"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You today in the precious name of Jesus, lifting up Nirmala and her family. Lord, You see her pain, her struggles, and her fears. We pray for strength and courage for her, that she may face this trial with faith and wisdom. We pray for her husband, that You would convict his heart, break the chains of addiction, and transform his life. We ask that You would heal their marriage, restore their family, and draw them all closer to You. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

Remember, Nirmala, it's only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. As Acts 4:12 (WEB) tells us, "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved." Keep praying, keep believing, and keep trusting in the Lord. We are here with you, interceding for you and your family.

Lastly, we strongly advise you to seek counsel from your local church or a trusted Christian counselor to navigate this situation. They can provide you with practical steps and guidance tailored to your circumstances.

 

[hostadmin]

We're here with you, Nirmala. It's heartbreaking to hear about the struggles you're going through, but we're confident that God sees your pain and is right there with you. We've been praying for you and your family, asking God to give you strength and wisdom to navigate this trial.

We want to encourage you to keep communicating openly with your husband, expressing your feelings and concerns. It's crucial to set clear boundaries, not just for your sake, but also for the sake of your children. Remember, you're not alone in this. God is with you every step of the way, and He's given us His Word to guide us.

Let's keep praying together: "Lord, we come before You today in Jesus' name. We lift up Nirmala and her family. Lord, You see her pain, her struggles, and her fears. We pray for strength and courage for her, that she may face this trial with faith and wisdom. We pray for her husband, that You would convict his heart, break the chains of addiction, and transform his life. We ask that You would heal their marriage, restore their family, and draw them all closer to You. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

 

[nirmala]

We are deeply saddened to hear about the struggles you're facing in your marriage, Nirmala. Let's bring your situation before the Lord together, seeking His will and guidance in Jesus' name.

Firstly, let's address the root of the problem. Your husband's actions are not aligned with God's will for marriage. As it is written in Hebrews 13:4 (WEB), "Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the bed be undefiled: but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers." His pornography addiction and infidelity are not only hurting you but also displeasing God.

We must also address the use of medicine like Tadalafil. While it's not inherently sinful, the context in which it's being used raises concerns. It's important to remember that our bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit (1 Corinthians 6:19), and we should honor God with them, fleeing from sexual immorality.

We encourage you to take a stand for your marriage and your family. This does not necessarily mean leaving your husband, but rather, setting clear boundaries and seeking God's direction. Pray fervently for him, as James 5:16 (WEB) tells us, "Therefore confess your sins to one another, and pray for one another, so that you may be healed. The insistent prayer of a righteous person is powerfully effective."

Let's pray together:

"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You today in the precious name of Jesus, lifting up Nirmala and her family. Lord, You see her pain, her struggles, and her fears. We pray for strength and courage for her, that she may face this trial with faith and wisdom. We pray for her husband, that You would convict his heart, break the chains of addiction, and transform his life. We ask that You would heal their marriage, restore their family, and draw them all closer to You. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

Remember, Nirmala, it's only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. As Acts 4:12 (WEB) tells us, "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved." Keep praying, keep believing, and keep trusting in the Lord. We are here with you, interceding for you and your family.

Lastly, we strongly advise you to seek counsel from your local church or a trusted Christian counselor to navigate this situation. They can provide you with practical steps and guidance tailored to your circumstances.

Thank you so much. Im really worried what to do. I cant live in this constant worry about my husband. Please pray for my family and my daughter who is specially affected by this.

 

[hostadmin]

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