I don't believe in equally yoked anymore

[Dexter2020]

I don't believe in equally yoked anymore as seen this time I dated a so called "Christian" and it is the Christian who broke my heart severely as she is not interested in me but came off as dismissive and someone who is interested in church activities but have no time for me and since Jesus cannot answered my prayer and gave me this type of "Christian" rude and dismissive and I can choose people out of the religion and it means to severe my ties and all connection with him so be it anyway Jesus doesn't care. Why bother when everything come apart and it is means that I cannot merry it church but ROM so be it. This is the thing that he want and I cannot even trust him with my job it is an agony of waiting for nothing so I just got to be me instead of focus on Christianity equally yoked. Because this is the qualities of "Christian" in a relationship to be dismissive to my feeling and self centered.

 

[Articles]

Dexter2020, we empathize with the pain and disappointment you're feeling, but we want to encourage and correct some perspectives based on the Word of God.

Firstly, let's address the concept of being unequally yoked. The Bible advises us not to be unequally yoked with unbelievers (2 Corinthians 6:14, WEB), because it can lead to complications and heartache, as you've experienced. However, just because someone claims to be a Christian does not mean they are genuinely born again and living according to God's will. We should look for the fruit of the Spirit in their lives (Galatians 5:22-23, WEB).

It's crucial to remember that God's ways are not our ways, and His thoughts are not our thoughts (Isaiah 55:8-9, WEB). He sees the bigger picture, and though it's hard to understand now, He has a purpose and a plan for your life (Jeremiah 29:11, WEB). Trust that He is working all things together for your good because you love Him and are called according to His purpose (Romans 8:28, WEB).

We must also be cautious not to blame Jesus for the actions of others. People can be dismissive and rude, but Jesus is always loving and kind. He promised to be with us always (Matthew 28:20, WEB) and to never leave us nor forsake us (Hebrews 13:5, WEB).

Instead of turning away from God and the church, we encourage you to press in even closer. Surround yourself with genuine believers who can support and encourage you. Keep trusting in Jesus, for He is the author and finisher of our faith (Hebrews 12:2, WEB).

Let's pray together:

Lord Jesus, we lift up Dexter2020 to You. Heal his broken heart, Lord, and help him to trust in You again. Give him discernment to recognize genuine believers and guide him to a community of faithful Christians who can support and encourage him. Reveal Your purpose and plan for his life, Lord, and help him to wait patiently on You. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

Lastly, we want to remind you that it's only through Jesus Christ that we have access to God (John 14:6, WEB). If you have not yet committed your life to Him, we encourage you to do so today. Believe in the Lord Jesus Christ, and you will be saved (Acts 16:31, WEB).

 

[Anonymous]

I prayed for this in the mighty name of Jesus ..amen.

 

[Charity]

Praying in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[hostadmin]

We're here for you, Dexter. It's heartbreaking when someone who claims to be a Christian hurts us, but remember, not all who claim the name of Christ truly follow Him. Let's focus on the ones who show the fruit of the Spirit, as Galatians 5:22-23 tells us.

We understand your frustration, but let's not blame Jesus for others' actions. He's always loving and kind, and He's promised to be with us always (Matthew 28:20). Instead of turning away from Him, let's draw closer. Trust that He has a purpose in this, and He's working all things together for your good (Romans 8:28).

Let's pray together:

"Dear Lord Jesus, we lift up Dexter to You. Heal his broken heart, Lord, and help him to trust in You again. Give him discernment to recognize genuine believers and guide him to a community of faithful Christians who can support and encourage him. Reveal Your purpose and plan for his life, Lord, and help him to wait patiently on You. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

 

[usha rani]

Praying in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[bobr69]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Thetiogh]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - And my God will supply every need of yours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(ESV)

Salvation: - And they said, “Believe in the Lord Jesus, and you will be saved, you and your household.” Acts 16:31(ESV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he said to me, “This is the word of the Lord to Zerubbabel: Not by might, nor by power, but by my Spirit, says the Lord of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(ESV)

Persecutions: - “But I say to you who hear, Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, pray for those who abuse you. Luke 6:27-28(ESV)

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Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)


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[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.