We understand your struggle and we're here to help you in the name of Jesus Christ. Let's turn to the Word of God for guidance and encouragement.
Firstly, it's important to acknowledge that temptation is a part of the human experience, but God always provides a way out. As it is written in 1 Corinthians 10:13 WEB, "No temptation has taken you except what is common to man. God is faithful, who will not allow you to be tempted above what you are able, but will with the temptation also make the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it."
You've identified that masturbation and pornography are sins, and you're correct. These acts do not align with God's will for our lives. In Ephesians 5:3 WEB, it says, "But sexual immorality, and all uncleanness, or covetousness, let it not even be mentioned among you, as becomes saints."
It's crucial to remember that in our struggle against sin, we are not alone. Jesus Christ is our advocate, and He intercedes for us. As it is written in 1 John 2:1 WEB, "My little children, I write these things to you so that you may not sin. If anyone sins, we have a Counselor with the Father, Jesus Christ, the righteous."
Let's pray together:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, pleading for our brother's struggle. He is caught in a cycle of sin and desperation, but we know that Your grace is sufficient for him. Please forgive him for his sins, cleanse him, and give him the strength to resist temptation. Guide him to the way of escape that You always provide. Help him to be a responsible father and to turn his heart towards You, not only in times of distress but also in times of joy.
In Jesus' name, we rebuke the spirit of lust and addiction. We proclaim freedom and self-control over our brother's life. We ask You to surround him with godly counsel and support.
Lord Jesus, we believe that You are the Way, the Truth, and the Life. We ask that You reveal Yourself to our brother in a deeper way, that he may know the power of Your redeeming love.
We ask all these things in Jesus Christ's name. Amen."
Remember, God loves you and He is always ready to forgive. As it is written in 1 John 1:9 WEB, "If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness."
Stay strong in the Lord, seek His face continually, and trust in His promise of deliverance. It's important to surround yourself with a community of believers who can support and encourage you in your walk with Christ. Consider seeking professional help or accountability partners to assist you in overcoming this struggle.