I did it again

[Anonymous]

I posted here before on Oct 21, 2024, with feelings of disappointment, disbelief, shame, guilt, anxiety, and disconnection. I've been home for 6 months now, and I left my job 6 months ago due to my feelings. I tried to explain to my family my condition and way of thinking, but I'm always misunderstood. They don’t get it—and I don’t blame them. To each its own, right? I have a problem with sin. I truly believe in my heart that masturbating and pornography are sins, yet they say it’s a normal part of life, and every man has “needs.” I try not to do it and watch it anymore, and somehow it gets to me, and I'm back at it again. It's not until I spill my seed that I feel the effects of what I have caused. I am a sinner. I want to be forgiven, I want to feel connected. I want to be free and I want to always seek God not only when I do wrong but also when I do right. This is something really important to me… I did quit my job and now I'm in debt, and I have a daughter I'm not taking care of because of my sin. It's not something I do every day, but when I do fall, it breaks me. I always repent and go back to my old ways…. Right now, it just happened, and I don't get it. It has been 6 days since the last time I masturbated. I repented, I promised I wouldn’t do it again, and yet here I am again.

 

[bobr69]

Praying for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Articles]

We understand your struggle and we're here to help you in the name of Jesus Christ. Let's turn to the Word of God for guidance and encouragement.

Firstly, it's important to acknowledge that temptation is a part of the human experience, but God always provides a way out. As it is written in 1 Corinthians 10:13 WEB, "No temptation has taken you except what is common to man. God is faithful, who will not allow you to be tempted above what you are able, but will with the temptation also make the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it."

You've identified that masturbation and pornography are sins, and you're correct. These acts do not align with God's will for our lives. In Ephesians 5:3 WEB, it says, "But sexual immorality, and all uncleanness, or covetousness, let it not even be mentioned among you, as becomes saints."

It's crucial to remember that in our struggle against sin, we are not alone. Jesus Christ is our advocate, and He intercedes for us. As it is written in 1 John 2:1 WEB, "My little children, I write these things to you so that you may not sin. If anyone sins, we have a Counselor with the Father, Jesus Christ, the righteous."

Let's pray together:

"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, pleading for our brother's struggle. He is caught in a cycle of sin and desperation, but we know that Your grace is sufficient for him. Please forgive him for his sins, cleanse him, and give him the strength to resist temptation. Guide him to the way of escape that You always provide. Help him to be a responsible father and to turn his heart towards You, not only in times of distress but also in times of joy.

In Jesus' name, we rebuke the spirit of lust and addiction. We proclaim freedom and self-control over our brother's life. We ask You to surround him with godly counsel and support.

Lord Jesus, we believe that You are the Way, the Truth, and the Life. We ask that You reveal Yourself to our brother in a deeper way, that he may know the power of Your redeeming love.

We ask all these things in Jesus Christ's name. Amen."

Remember, God loves you and He is always ready to forgive. As it is written in 1 John 1:9 WEB, "If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness."

Stay strong in the Lord, seek His face continually, and trust in His promise of deliverance. It's important to surround yourself with a community of believers who can support and encourage you in your walk with Christ. Consider seeking professional help or accountability partners to assist you in overcoming this struggle.

 

[hostadmin]

We're here with you, brother. We understand that this is a heavy burden you're carrying, and we want you to know that you're not alone. We've all got our struggles, and it's okay to feel overwhelmed. But remember, God is faithful, and He's always there to help us up when we fall.

You've taken the first step by acknowledging your sin and your desire to change. That's a powerful thing, and it shows that you're truly seeking God's will for your life. Masturbation and pornography might seem like small things to some, but you've felt the conviction in your heart, and that's what matters. God sees your heart, and He's proud of you for wanting to do right.

It's tough, isn't it? The cycle of sin and guilt, the feeling of being stuck. But remember, God's grace is enough for you. He's not surprised by your struggles, and He's not waiting to punish you. He's waiting to forgive, to heal, to restore.

Let's pray together, shall we?

"Dear Heavenly Father, we come to You today on behalf of our ###. He's struggling, Lord, and he needs Your help. Please forgive him for his sins, cleanse him, and give him the strength to resist temptation. Help him to see the way out, Lord, the way of escape that You've always provided. Help him to be the father he wants to be, the man You created him to be. Help him to turn his heart towards You, not just in times of distress, but always.

In Jesus' name, we ask for freedom from this cycle. We ask for self-control, for godly counsel, for support. Help him to know You more, Lord, to experience Your love and Your power in a deeper way.

We ask all these things in Jesus' name. Amen."

Keep fighting, brother. Keep seeking God, keep repenting, keep trusting. You're not alone. You're loved. You're forgiven. And you're going to make it through this. We're here for you, every step of the way.

 

[Saraha]

Praying for you. Heavenly Father hear our prayers. In Jesus Name I Pray Amen

 

[Wyekul]

Praying for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[EnricoLange]

Lord Jesus in your mercy please help them. Help the daughter as well. Thank you.

 

[Anonymous]

Thank you everyone

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - And my God will supply every need of yours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(ESV)

Salvation: - And they said, “Believe in the Lord Jesus, and you will be saved, you and your household.” Acts 16:31(ESV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he said to me, “This is the word of the Lord to Zerubbabel: Not by might, nor by power, but by my Spirit, says the Lord of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(ESV)

Persecutions: - “But I say to you who hear, Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, pray for those who abuse you. Luke 6:27-28(ESV)

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Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

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[usha rani]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.