I dated my husband 3 years before we finally ...

CompletelyOpen · Jul 13, 2013

I dated my husband 3 years before we finally tied the knot. Now being married for 7 years i recently found out he has same sex attractions. I discovered that he enjoys straight and homosexual porno, frequently visits strip clubs and sex shops and he has surfed online looking for male escorts. He said he has never acted out on these things but because he was molested by a female and male at a young age he has gender attraction confusion.

We have two beautiful kids and i would be lying if i said i dont love my husband but how does someone continue a relationship knowing this information? I am a christian and try to lean on my faith in every aspect of my life but i know this is not productive in allowing my marriage to be ministry.

My kids constantly ask me where is daddy, being only 2yrs, and 4yrs old Ive made up things. It breaks my heart that im in this situation. It pains me because i cant deny my love for him but i also cannot pretend i now do not know the truth. My first mind told me to see what he wanted to do because i myself did not have any answers so i printed out divorce documents to see if he was telling me to rebuild our marriage or just telling me so we could dissolve THE marriage. He stated he cannot make a promise that he wont ever have these feelings and he doesnt want to hurt me anymore but him giving up hurts.

I have since filed for divorce and am in the 60 day waiting period. But inside im still torn. We dont talk he barely speaks to the kids, should i just walk away or ask him if he wants to try counseling? I just dont know what to do...

Articles · Jul 13, 2013

Our God of peace, you have taught us that in returning and rest we shall be saved, in quietness and in confidence shall be our strength: By the might of your Spirit answer this request, we pray of you, so we may be still and know that you are God; through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.

destinynow · Jul 13, 2013

I pray the peace of God which pass all understanding surround you and that your husband will be delivered and set free. I pray God give you continued wisdom to make sure you protect your body since their is a chance of unfaithfulness and that He reveal to you what you should do in this situation clearly in Jesus name.

HEALTH · Jul 13, 2013

I pray that God will guide you and help you . I pray fro him to be clear headed to see .

keep on praying and never stop . do not fret for nothing is too BIG for GOD ..

Have a blessed day and be a peace .

MerciMe · Jul 13, 2013

We all know that the time is short and that the Lord has urged us to be looking up and watching and praying for His soon return. Help us Father God, to turn our focus and attention back to our first love Jesus Christ. Help us to encourage, exhort, and proclaim to others about the gospel of Jesus Christ. The Lord Himself warned us all with this teaching in Matthew 25.

1.Then shall the kingdom of heaven be likened unto ten virgins, which took their lamps, and went forth to meet the Bridegroom.

2 And five of them were wise, and five were foolish.

3 They that were foolish took their lamps, and took no oil with them:

4 But the wise took oil in their vessels with their lamps.

5 While the bridegroom tarried, they all slumbered and slept.

6 And at midnight there was a cry made, Behold, the bridegroom cometh; go ye out to meet him.

7 Then all those virgins arose, and trimmed their lamps.

8 And the foolish said unto the wise, Give us of your oil; for our lamps are gone out.

9 But the wise answered, saying, Not so; lest there be not enough for us and you: but go ye rather to them that sell, and buy for yourselves.

10 And while they went to buy, the bridegroom came; and they that were ready went in with him to the marriage: and the door was shut.

11 Afterward came also the other virgins, saying, Lord, Lord, open to us.

12 But he answered and said, Verily I say unto you, I know you not.

13 Watch therefore, for ye know neither the day nor the hour wherein the Son of man cometh.

Don · Jul 13, 2013

Hebrews 4:16

Let us therefore come boldly unto the throne of grace, that we may obtain mercy, and find grace to help in time of need.

My wife and I am praying now in Jesus name for your request.

dcals · Jul 13, 2013

I prayed for this. In Jesus Name. Amen.

CompletelyOpen · Jul 14, 2013

Thank you for your prayers. I am humbled. God is great and I am believing in him. He is in the midst of my situation with you all touching and agreeing I now give God the praise for his wonderful works for the things he has done, he is doing, and what he will do.

Tammy · Jul 14, 2013

I prayed for this. In Jesus Name. Amen.

hostadmin · Jul 19, 2013

Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray on your behalf. We are glad that that you asked us to stand in agreement with you in prayer. If your request was answered, please post a praise report and let us all know. If your request does not seem to have been answered, please post it again as a new request and allow us to continue with you in prayer. We all hope that our prayers are answered in the way that we want. Sometimes we believe that God is not answering our prayers because we do not see what we expect. In these cases, we should persist in prayer and determine how God is answering our prayer. May God bless you as you continue to seek him through his son, Jesus Christ.