I cried whole night, impossible situation, my ###.

natasha2

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Lord please help me. I am overwhelmed with duties. Work, sick and dement parents, working faraway, my brother helps to but he commands and is harsh to me and with no compassion. Lord my parents don't want to go to the senior home and this would be the best solution. It is very hard for me to take care of them and soon it will not be possible. My mother forgets things and my father is completely dependent on her because his cognitive and physical abilities are lowered. My brother doesn't understand this and he thinks that we will be able to do this. Lord please help and find a solution because I don't have enough strength and have gastritis issues which get worse when I am under stress. I blame my old parents to cast all responsibility on us but I hear many old parents have reserved places in senior home just because they want their children to have their own lives or not to be a burden to someone. My parents are narcissistic from my childhood, my brother too. Lord how can I get out of this situation. They can live 10 years like this or worse. They don't want any other progressive help (strangers) in their home. Terribly stubborn. And they have enough money for minimum care. My brother is blackmailing me in some situations that he will persuade my parents not to leave me anything (their apartment was promised to me). I am not feeling well physically and yesterday I cried the whole night feeling like I am in a trap and no way out. I feel so lonely and unsupported. And I am very worried about their health. I would like to have them long with me on this earth.
 
We understand that you are going through an incredibly challenging time, feeling overwhelmed by responsibilities and the complex dynamics within your family. First, let us remind you that it is only through the name of Jesus Christ that we have access to God. As it is written in John 14:6 WEB: "Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me." and in Acts 4:12 WEB: "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!" We will pray for you and respond with this in mind.

In times of overwhelming stress and burden, it is crucial to remember that God cares for you and wants to help you. As Peter encourages us in 1 Peter 5:7 WEB: "casting all your worries on him, because he cares for you."

Let's pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up our sister who is feeling overwhelmed and trapped. Lord, You know the depth of her struggles and the heaviness of her burdens. We pray for Your divine intervention in her life and her family's situation.

Father, we pray for wisdom and guidance as she navigates the complexities of caring for her aging parents and dealing with the harshness of her brother. We ask that You soften the hearts of her family members, especially her brother, and help them to understand the gravity of the situation and the need for a viable solution.

We pray for her parents, that You would grant them a spirit of cooperation and understanding, especially regarding the possibility of moving to a senior home where they can receive the care they need. Lord, we ask that You provide a way out of this seemingly impossible situation, and that You would give her the strength and courage to make the necessary decisions.

Father, we also pray for her physical health, particularly her gastritis issues. We ask that You heal her body and give her the strength to endure this challenging time. We pray that You would surround her with Your love and comfort, reminding her that she is not alone and that You are always with her.

We pray for her brother, that You would convict his heart and help him to see the error of his ways. We ask that You would help him to understand the importance of compassion and kindness, and that You would guide him towards the way of Christ. We pray that he would be a blessing and encouragement to his family rather than a burden.

Lord, we ask that You would provide a way out of this situation, and that You would give her the wisdom and discernment to make the right decisions. We pray that You would guide her steps and help her to find the support she needs during this difficult time.

We ask all these things in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.

The issues in your family are deeply troublesome, but we have to address this in God's will. Your parents may be struggling, but we should remind ourselves to honor them, as commanded in Ephesians 6:2 WEB: "Honor your father and mother," which is the first commandment with a promise.

Your brother's behavior is clearly problematic. The Bible warns us against using harsh words or manipulation, as he seems to be. In Colossians 3:8 WEB: "But now you also put away all these: anger, wrath, malice, slander, and shameful speaking out of your mouth." We pray that God will soften his heart and guide him towards a more compassionate path.

We also want to be clear in the truths of the Bible that blackmailing and manipulation are immoral and forbidden. You should seek the Lord's will and guidance in this matter, and not be swayed by fear or threats.

Regarding the care of your parents, it is essential to remember that their well-being is a priority. If a senior home is the best solution for their care, then it is important to consider this option seriously. We pray that God will provide a way for them to accept this possibility and that He would give you the strength to help them through this transition.

Remember to keep Jesus at the beginning of your thoughts and actions. Be encouraged by the words of Jesus in Matthew 11:28-30 WEB: "Come to me, all you who labor and are heavily burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart; and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light."

In this time of need turn to the Lord Jesus Christ for help. As we read in John 15:5 WEB: "I am the vine. You are the branches. He who remains in me, and I in him, the same bears much fruit, for apart from me you can do nothing."
 
Dear friend, we're here with you, feeling the weight of your situation. It's like you're in a storm, and it's hard to see the shore. But remember, Jesus is in the boat with you, calming the storm (Mark 4:35-41).

First, let's pray. "Dear Jesus, we come to You, carrying our ###'s burden. She's overwhelmed, Jesus. Her parents need care, her brother's harsh, and she's feeling alone. Lord, You see her tears, her fears, her gas issues. We ask for Your healing touch, Your wisdom, and Your strength. Help her parents accept the senior home idea. Soften her brother's heart, Jesus. Give her courage, guide her steps, and surround her with Your love. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

Now, let's talk. It's okay to feel lonely, but remember, God is always with you (Deuteronomy 31:6). Your parents' health is crucial. A senior home might be best, but it's a big change. Let's pray they accept it. Your brother... well, he's struggling too. Pray for him, Jesus can change hearts (Acts 3:19).

You're not alone. We're here, Jesus is here. Let's trust Him, one step at a time. He'll show us the way out.
 
May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You. Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so.
Prayer written by The Encourager, Woman of God, Prayer Warrior, Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)

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We continue to uphold you in our prayers, dear brother or sister, ever since you shared your heartfelt cry with us. It has been a few days, and we trust that you have felt comforted and loved by our Lord Jesus Christ in every moment.

We want to remind you that we are still standing in agreement with you in prayer. We are fervently asking God to guide you in your overwhelming situation, with work, your parents' health, and your brother's involvement. We pray that God will soften their hearts and help you find the best solution for your parents, especially since they are resistant to moving into a senior home. We are praying that He will grant you physical strength, alleviate your gastritis and stress, and surround you with His unfailing love so you do not feel lonely or unsupported.

If God has already provided an answer, we would be delighted to hear your praise report to rejoice with you. If your request does not seem to have been answered yet, please do not hesitate to post it again as a new request. Allow us to persist with you in prayer, believing that God is working everything out for your good and His glory, just as He promised in Romans 8:28.

May God bless you as you continue to seek Him through His son, Jesus Christ. We echo the words of the Apostle Paul in Ephesians 3:16-19, praying that "according to the riches of His glory, He may grant you to be strengthened with power through His Spirit in your inner being, so that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith—that you, being rooted and grounded in love, may have strength to comprehend with all the saints what is the breadth and length and height and depth, and to know the love of Christ that surpasses knowledge, that you may be filled with all the fullness of God. "In Jesus Name.

We are here for you, dear one, and we are continually lifting you up in prayer.
 

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