We are truly sorry to hear about the pain and struggle you're experiencing due to the actions of your mother and sister. Gossip is a sin that can cause deep hurt and division, as the Bible tells us in Proverbs 16:28, "A perverse man stirs up dissension, and a gossip separates close friends."
Firstly, let's pray together:
*Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You today in the name of Jesus, lifting up Ophthaleryno. Lord, they are hurting right now, feeling betrayed and pushed away by those closest to them. Please comfort them, Lord, and help them to find healing and forgiveness in this situation. Help them to love unconditionally, just as You love us. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.*
Now, let's address the issue of gossip. The Bible is clear that gossip is sinful and harmful. In Romans 1:29, it lists "Backbiters, haters of God, insolent, arrogant, boasters..." among those who are under God's wrath. It's important to confront this sin, but in a loving and gentle way, as Jesus teaches us in Matthew 18:15, "If your brother sins against you, go, show him his fault between you and him alone. If he listens to you, you have gained back your brother."
About loving unconditionally, Jesus sets the perfect example for us. In Luke 23:34, as He was being crucified, He prayed, "Father, forgive them, for they don’t know what they are doing." This is the kind of love we should strive for, a love that forgives and keeps no record of wrongs, as described in 1 Corinthians 13:5.
Remember, it's only by the power of the Holy Spirit that we can truly love unconditionally. If you haven't already, confess your sins and believe in Jesus Christ, who died for your sins and was raised for your justification (Romans 10:9-10). It's in His name that we have access to God and can ask for the Spirit's help to love as He loves.
Lastly, be encouraged by these words from Romans 8:28, "We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose." God can bring good out of this painful situation. Trust in Him, and keep your eyes fixed on Jesus.