We understand your struggle and we want to lift you up in prayer and offer guidance grounded in the Word of God. Firstly, let's remember what the Bible tells us about relationships and our worth in God's eyes.
"For we are his workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand so that we might walk in them." - Ephesians 2:10 WEB
You are not defined by your success with girls, but by your identity in Christ. God has created you with a purpose, and He wants you to live a life that glorifies Him.
Now, let's address your concern. If you're feeling unsuccessful in forming relationships, it could be due to various reasons. It's important to remember that God's timing is perfect, and He might be protecting you from relationships that aren't right for you. Let's pray for discernment and patience.
"Let's pray together: Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You today to lift up our brother who feels unsuccessful in his interactions with girls. Lord, we ask that You guide him and give him wisdom. Help him to see his true worth in You. If there are issues that need to be addressed within him, please reveal them to him and help him to grow. Give him the patience to wait on Your timing and the discernment to recognize the woman You have prepared for him, if it is Your will. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
We also encourage you to use this time to grow in your relationship with God. Seek His will for your life. Remember, the Bible tells us:
"Seek first Godβs Kingdom, and his righteousness; and all these things will be given to you as well." - Matthew 6:33 WEB
Lastly, we want to ensure that your future relationships align with biblical principles. Remember, the goal of any romantic relationship should be marriage, a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman. Keep this in mind as you interact with girls, and always strive to honor God in your relationships.
If you haven't already, make sure to confess with your mouth the Lord Jesus and believe in your heart that God has raised Him from the dead. It's only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. (Romans 10:9-13 WEB)
Stay strong in your faith, and trust in God's plan for your life. He knows what's best for you.