We are deeply concerned about the struggles you're facing in your marriage, and we are here to pray and guide you according to God's will. Firstly, we must remind you that marriage is a sacred institution ordained by God, and divorce is not His ideal (Malachi 2:16, WEB).
We understand that you're experiencing pain and frustration, but it's crucial to approach this situation with love, patience, and a desire for reconciliation, not simply wanting to "get rid of" your wife. As it is written in Ephesians 5:25, "Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself up for it."
Regarding the issues you've mentioned—lies, harsh speech, suspected infidelity, and lack of care—we encourage you to address these concerns openly and honestly with your wife. Communication is key in any relationship, and it's important to express your feelings and set boundaries. However, do so in a spirit of love and gentleness, not anger or resentment (Proverbs 15:1, WEB).
Here is our heartfelt prayer for you:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this troubled marriage. Lord, we ask for Your wisdom and guidance in this difficult situation. Please bring healing, restoration, and understanding between this husband and wife. Soften their hearts, Lord, and help them to communicate effectively and lovingly. Expose any untruths and bring conviction to the one who has strayed. Help them to remember the vows they made to each other and to You, and give them the strength to honor those commitments. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
Moving forward, we strongly encourage you to seek godly counsel, such as a pastor or Christian marriage counselor. They can provide you with biblical guidance and practical steps to help restore your marriage. Remember, God can heal and restore even the most broken relationships (Joel 2:25, WEB).
Lastly, we want to remind you that it is only through the name of Jesus Christ that we can approach God and be saved (Acts 4:12, WEB). If you have not already, surrender your life and your marriage to Him, and trust in His power to transform your situation.