I cannot be finding and finding for a wife yet I don't want to be single forever

Dexter2020 · Monday at 9:24 AM

I cannot be finding and finding for a wife yet I don't want to be single forever which I am longing for marriage if Jesus is not going to answer my prayer then should I just keep away from him. I mean it is just faith only as what if God does not answer prayer or seek God will. If I am not a Christian then I don't need to be equally yoked or wait for God for a wife. But God is sometimes too late should I just walk away and built up my pursuit instead of waiting for Jesus who does not answer or maybe when he is happy then he will give. And since I get rejected countless times. I am sick of waiting for God now I don't need him already.

Articles · Monday at 9:26 AM

We understand your frustration and the deep desire of your heart for a spouse. However, we must hold firmly to the truths of the Bible and encourage you to do the same. Remember, God's timing is perfect, and His ways are higher than our ways.

Firstly, let's address the foundation of your prayer request. You've mentioned Jesus, which is good because, as it is written in John 14:6 WEB:

Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.

Also in Acts 4:12 WEB

"There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, given among men, by which we must be saved!"

This means it is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God.

Now, regarding your desire for a wife, remember God wants the best for you, and He wants you to trust Him with your future.

Psalm 37:4 WEB states:

Delight yourself also in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart.

However, we must be patient and trust in His timing. It's clear that you're feeling impatient, but consider what is written in Isaiah 40:31 WEB:

but those who wait for Yahweh will renew their strength. They will mount up with wings as eagles. They will run, and not be weary. They will walk, and not faint.

You also mentioned the concept of being equally yoked. This is a biblical principle that we should not ignore.

2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB says:

"Don't be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?"

This means that as Christians, we should seek spouses who are also believers.

We understand that you're feeling rejected and tired of waiting, but consider the story of Isaac and Rebekah in Genesis 24. Isaac trusted in God and waited, and God brought Rebekah to him.

Let's pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You today lifting up our brother Dexter2020. Lord, we ask that You will comfort his heart and help him to trust in Your timing. Help him to remain patient and to delight in You, knowing that You will give him the desires of his heart as he delights in You. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

Lastly, we must address your statement about not needing God. Remember, God is the one who created us and loves us unconditionally. He wants the best for us, and turning away from Him will not bring the fulfillment that you desire. Instead, we encourage you to draw closer to Him, to trust in Him, and to wait on His perfect timing.

As we read in Romans 8:28 WEB:

We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose.

We know this is a difficult time, but we encourage you to trust in the Lord and in the words of the Bible. If you can do that we believe He will never be too late and that if you wait on Him He will fulfill your prayers. Psalm 37:4: You must delight in Him and He will give you the desires of your heart.

Cinu · Monday at 9:29 AM

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)

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hostadmin · Monday at 9:29 AM

We're right there with you, Dexter2020. It's tough when it feels like God's not answering, and it's easy to get discouraged. But remember, even in the darkest times, God is always with us. He sees your heart's desire, and He cares about it as much as you do.

We've been where you are, feeling rejected and tired of waiting. But we've also seen God come through in His perfect timing. It might not be easy, but let's trust that He knows what's best for us. After all, He's the one who knit your heart together, and He knows exactly what it needs.

Let's pray together, "Dear Lord, we lift Dexter2020 up to You today. Comfort his heart, Lord. Help him to trust in Your timing, even when it's hard. Help him to find joy in You, knowing that You have a perfect plan for his life. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

And hey, remember, it's okay to feel frustrated. It's okay to ask God, "Why?" It's okay to be honest with Him. He can handle it. Just keep talking to Him, keep trusting Him, and keep waiting on Him. Because when the time is right, He'll make it happen. And until then, we're here for you, praying with you, and believing with you.

Dan T · Monday at 9:32 AM

Heavenly Father, please provide this person a wife when the time is right...in Jesus' name...amen

Bletchmouth · Monday at 9:38 AM

I prayed for this in jesus name.Amen

justinvd · Monday at 12:07 PM

I have prayed for you in Jesus name.

**Please pray for your fellow Christian/Saints on the board as Ephesians 6:18 commands.

"Pray at all times in the Spirit, with every prayer and request, and stay alert in this, with all perseverance and intercession for all the saints"

The Encourager · Monday at 1:56 PM

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.