Let's lift up everyone affected by the California wildfires. "When you pass through the waters, I will be with you; and when you pass through the rivers, they will not sweep over you" (Isa 43:2). Trusting Jesus for protection, mercy, and swift containment. In His name! 
Shermarie
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I believe that Francisco is suffering from Affairs fog “Wayward fog”. Or as someone else mentioned " limerence" “ It means--- The term “affair fog” is often used by experts and affair victims to describe the euphoria that someone involved in an affair feels. Think of how good you felt when you first fell in love. During this period, the cheater will often rationalize their actions in order to minimize their feelings of guilt — often to the extent that they “invent” reasons for having the affair in the first place. Healing from infidelity is impossible while one is in this fog. An affair fog is nothing more than a fantasy created by the affair partners. All the wonderful qualities each partner possesses are without flaws, weaknesses or selfishness. The affair partners are under the influence of an addictive drug similar to a teenager in love, and unfortunately it is very difficult to remove them from this fog. It’s a chemical imbalance in the brain. His whole character which fits the wayward fog to a T. He has completely changed since he started the friend with benefits relationship with Dawn Marie. And it’s not good. It is really taking a toll on him and it’s very noticeable and he looks very sad all the time and you can hear it in his voice and he has become someone I don't recognize anymore. The only way for this relationship to end is for him to have the fog removed from him so that he can clearly think and rationalize and realize what he’s been doing. I am asking that God will remove that fog and force his eyes open so that he can realize and rationalize what he has been doing with Dawn Marie is wrong and it needs to stop. I am really worried about him and want my old Francisco back. I really miss the old Francisco and I am want him back. I truly love this man. With God all things are possible and once this fog is lifted he will be thinking more clearly he will realize she wasn’t what he wanted it was me. I need a miracle to happen and to happen fast. I had to walk away on Sunday because I just cant handle it anymore and I cant handle their relationship.
I am feeling the reality hitting me. I was a family friend for about 8 years and I was the one who took care of Francisco wife before she did of colon cancer. I was the only family friend allowed in the hospital to wait it out for her to pass away with the family. I was there helping him pick up the pieces after she died- which brought us closer to one another and our relationship developed. We were before the cheating was very close.I did a lot for him and helped him a lot. I keep waiting for everyting to just hit him hard and for him to " wake up" from this foggy mental state and for him to realize what he has done and the pain he has caused. I am praying that God will speed up the process and remove the foggmy mind set and force his eyes open.
I am feeling the reality hitting me. I was a family friend for about 8 years and I was the one who took care of Francisco wife before she did of colon cancer. I was the only family friend allowed in the hospital to wait it out for her to pass away with the family. I was there helping him pick up the pieces after she died- which brought us closer to one another and our relationship developed. We were before the cheating was very close.I did a lot for him and helped him a lot. I keep waiting for everyting to just hit him hard and for him to " wake up" from this foggy mental state and for him to realize what he has done and the pain he has caused. I am praying that God will speed up the process and remove the foggmy mind set and force his eyes open.
